Do I have SIL's child? **AN UPDATE**

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

Kimberley - I was same as you - but if you read whole thread you might understand why i came to the conclusion i did.

(plus- ive never ever met the child so i dont view her as "family" if that makes sense)

meritaten

oh mimi - the sad, sad pair of them! this almost breaks my heart. YOU know whats going to happen, I know and so does everyone else - apart from this couple! talk about 'Eternal Optimists' and that seems to describe them perfectly! This is awful - but I doubt that YOU would go through the 'shall I take the baby' scenario. I would imagine that the baby will be taken straight from her after the birth and adopted. How sad is that. Why has no-one supported this pair (I mean Social Services - not you or your family as I got the impression from before that you have all tried your best). I think that your role is to prepare them for whats going to happen and just be there for them. Nothing else you CAN do!

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

To be honest SS havent even bothered with the kids that are already here - they definitley arent bothered about SIL and bro. I know they havent visited the little girl thats with our family for about 2 months now which is ridiculous (ok, i know shes fine and is actually improving ALOT but they dont)

I told them last time (before the youngest was born) to sort it because they would take the baby from birth and they didnt believe me and thats exactly what happened. I did ask my mum other day if she thinks SIL is stupid enough to try and disappear to have the baby but mum doesnt think so

Im so angry with them right now - i know they arent fit mentally but they must know what will happen.

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

Congrats, Mimi - concentrate on yourself now.

jellyhead

and get your cot back!

building_with_lego

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel wrote: »

and im 6 weeks pregnant now (could i slap some sense into sil and blame hormones? lol)

:T:T Mimi, that's wonderful news!

jackieglasgow

Mimi I am delighted to hear your own personal news, and sad to hear that she may be pregnant again. Sadly this is very common in women in that situation. I hope she's wrong.

Spendless

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel wrote: »

Sorry if i souldnt put the update on the last page but:

I told SIL i would be needing the cot back i gave her (Obviously she has no child who uses the cot) and the %&£^Y£$&"$"£$& daft c*w has said "oh, i think im pregnant too"

I want to throttle her . . . .

She isn't 100% sure if she is but shes put on ALOT of weight

I asked why she wasnt on the pill - she said docs refuse to give it her because of all her other medication

I said "depo!!!" she said she doesnt like needles

"implant?" her reply "i dont like the look of it"

So i told her to get bl**dy fixed - her reply "i dont like operations"

Am SO SO angry with her right now (shouted at bro - he said he thought she was being careful - idiot)

any one got the number for Jeremy Kyle ...........

I'd want to throttle the father of the baby too, what's wrong with condoms?They don't interfere with medication or require any of the above that she 'doesn't like'.

Congratulations on your pregnancy mimi.

Savvy_Sue

jellyhead wrote: »

and get your cot back!

Actually, I think I'd let the cot go ... and try to have no further direct contact. It's too too sad for those children.

Congratulations to Mimi.

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

Normally i wouldnt bother over an item but the cot was my DD's - and as hey never officially used it i'd like it back (more sentimental than anything) and plus - Its one less thing i need to buy then lol New mattress and a lick of paint and away we go