Do I have SIL's child? **AN UPDATE**

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

here's hoping

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

Sorry if i souldnt put the update on the last page but:

I told SIL i would be needing the cot back i gave her (Obviously she has no child who uses the cot) and the %&£^Y£$&"$"£$& daft c*w has said "oh, i think im pregnant too"

I want to throttle her . . . .

She isn't 100% sure if she is but shes put on ALOT of weight

I asked why she wasnt on the pill - she said docs refuse to give it her because of all her other medication

I said "depo!!!" she said she doesnt like needles

"implant?" her reply "i dont like the look of it"

So i told her to get bl**dy fixed - her reply "i dont like operations"

Am SO SO angry with her right now (shouted at bro - he said he thought she was being careful - idiot)

any one got the number for Jeremy Kyle ...........

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel wrote: »

Sorry if i souldnt put the update on the last page but:

I told SIL i would be needing the cot back i gave her (Obviously she has no child who uses the cot) and the %&£^Y£$&"$"£$& daft c*w has said "oh, i think im pregnant too"

I want to throttle her . . . .

She isn't 100% sure if she is but shes put on ALOT of weight

I asked why she wasnt on the pill - she said docs refuse to give it her because of all her other medication

I said "depo!!!" she said she doesnt like needles

"implant?" her reply "i dont like the look of it"

So i told her to get bl**dy fixed - her reply "i dont like operations"

Am SO SO angry with her right now (shouted at bro - he said he thought she was being careful - idiot)

any one got the number for Jeremy Kyle ...........

Sounds more like they need social services on speed dial.

One more for adoption, then.

Sigh.

jellyhead

I don't like the look of the implant either, so I chose a coil instead and I didn't look at one until after it had been inserted. The GP showed me one, to explain about the threads etc.

Perhaps this could be an option for your SIL. They last for 5 years and once it's in you just need to check that the threads are still there every so often. She could choose one without hormones if she prefers.

There are contraceptive patches too, although like the pill it depends on other medication as to what you are allowed to use.

She needs a chat with the doctor, surely they can't refuse her the pill then turn her away without any further contraceptive advice? Your brother needs to be given some information too - it's not just a woman's job to 'be careful' and how did he think she was being careful if she isn't on the pill?

Is she getting pregnant on purpose, because she feels a maternal urge?

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

i'm really really hoping she isnt - I cant believe how stupid they've been. She said it was an "accident" - i could understand it if it was her first - but this will be baby number 5 for gods sake - surely they know how they're made by now!

I dont know if doctor's suggest the coil and she's flatly refused - wouldnt surprose me as she keeps turning everything else down.

She's under the impression that she can get the kids back "in 5 years time" but she cant -they've already told her the only way she will get kids back home is when they turn 16 and if they want to. I dont know if shes fell pregnant on purpose or if she's generally just bbeing stupid. Part of me thinks she's doing it to see if she can keep this one but i honestly didnt think she was that daft.

I personally dont like the implant, but if i had 4 kids took off me, i'd make sure there wasnt a 5th - regardless what i had to do

Again - HOPEFULLY she's wrong about it. I really really hope so

Nimeth

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel wrote: »

Sorry if i souldnt put the update on the last page but:

I told SIL i would be needing the cot back i gave her (Obviously she has no child who uses the cot) and the %&£^Y£$&"$"£$& daft c*w has said "oh, i think im pregnant too"

I want to throttle her . . . .

She isn't 100% sure if she is but shes put on ALOT of weight

I asked why she wasnt on the pill - she said docs refuse to give it her because of all her other medication

I said "depo!!!" she said she doesnt like needles

"implant?" her reply "i dont like the look of it"

So i told her to get bl**dy fixed - her reply "i dont like operations"

Am SO SO angry with her right now (shouted at bro - he said he thought she was being careful - idiot)

any one got the number for Jeremy Kyle ...........

I'd want to throttle her too.

Those sounds like excuses to me. My guess is that she will continue to get pregnant and have children until SS let her keep one. Or am I way off?

Kimberley82

If it was me I would take on the baby, you dont let family members go into care.

jellyhead

Kimberley82 wrote: »

If it was me I would take on the baby, you dont let family members go into care.

It all depends really. If mimi had taken the baby then she'd also be expected to take the next baby, and the next one and the next one ... she has health problems and she should not be expected to take on her brother's children.

Kimberley82

jellyhead wrote: »

It all depends really. If mimi had taken the baby then she'd also be expected to take the next baby, and the next one and the next one ... she has health problems and she should not be expected to take on her brother's children.

All I was saying is I would, I couldnt let a family member go into care.

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

jellyhead wrote: »

It all depends really. If mimi had taken the baby then she'd also be expected to take the next baby, and the next one and the next one ... she has health problems and she should not be expected to take on her brother's children.

and im 6 weeks pregnant now (could i slap some sense into sil and blame hormones? lol)