Drunken Partners ~ Feel So Upset

Googlewhacker

Am I not the only one that thinks that whilst it is out of order that he is peeing everywhere that its a bit rich asking him to stop completley when you know he has reduced it by alot, he's not violent, he doesn't do it everynight.

He needs his release from the pressures of life, and the pregnancy as well.

LMCD

Googlewhacker wrote: »

Am I not the only one that thinks that whilst it is out of order that he is peeing everywhere that its a bit rich asking him to stop completley when you know he has reduced it by alot, he's not violent, he doesn't do it everynight.

He needs his release from the pressures of life, and the pregnancy as well.

Well lets tell the OP to take off her pregnant belly and go out for the lash for the night....oh wait she can't!!! she has to deal with it.

nine months away (more if feeding) from alchohol if OP does drink pre pregnancy...why can't he??

it's not how often he does it, am sure caseyface said he hadn't done it for ages...it's the fact when he does do it..the outcome.

Caseyface

Google, i've never asked, nor expected him to just stop drinking completely, but i have asked him to reduce/change what he drinks so that he doesn't end up like this.

durham_girl

He sounds like a selfish loser to me. In your situation I'd be packing my (or his!) bags. 3 weeks from EDD and he's out getting hammered? What if the stress causes you to go into labour? He's had 9 months to get his priorities straight and if he's still putting himself and booze before you and the baby I would suggest booting his p!ss soaked arse straight out the door.

durham_girl

And while you're on, have a widdle in the bathroom, make him clean it up then tell him it's yours and ask how if feels to clean up someone elses wee.

Blobby8_2

Probably a poor choice of father for your child, did you not consider his failings before getting pregnant ?

Caseyface

Blobby8 wrote: »

Probably a poor choice of father for your child, did you not consider his failings before getting pregnant ?

This is pointless and irrelevant now isn't it?

Regardless of whether i say yes i did consider it or no i didn't, makes no difference to my situation as it stands.

Rosed

A friend of ours used to do this. He would get very drunk and then the wardrobe seemed to take the place of the bathroom. I am pleased to say that he is now the proud father of two wonderful children and has not done it since they were born. The children are now 8 and 6 and he is a great dad. I think it was just that he used to get completely out of control. Since the kids arrived his sub conscious knows that he can't do that so he hasn't. I hope this helps you in some way as worrying at this stage of your pregnancy can not be good for you or babe. PS his wife NEVER cleaned up after him.

suited-aces

Googlewhacker wrote: »

Am I not the only one that thinks that whilst it is out of order that he is peeing everywhere that its a bit rich asking him to stop completley when you know he has reduced it by alot, he's not violent, he doesn't do it everynight.

He needs his release from the pressures of life, and the pregnancy as well.

No you're not. Then again he's male, therefore considered scum in these parts

Googlewhacker

LMCD wrote: »

Well lets tell the OP to take off her pregnant belly and go out for the lash for the night....oh wait she can't!!! she has to deal with it.

nine months away (more if feeding) from alchohol if OP does drink pre pregnancy...why can't he??

it's not how often he does it, am sure caseyface said he hadn't done it for ages...it's the fact when he does do it..the outcome.

She chose to get pregnant and thats her choice to be pregnant, it is his choice whether or not to drink or not.

The outcome is not great but I do wonder whether its that big a deal or not.