The Great Stripper Issue

Tropez

FelinePrincess wrote: »

Having said that, my oh is going on a stag do to eastern europe in a few months. He knows how I feel about eastern european lap dancing clubs and wasn't going to go, I insisted he did as I wouldn't want him to miss out on his friends stag do. I trust him so I am ok with, and he isn't going to have a lap dance. He would have dances on stag dos in the uk and that would be no problem but I know that eatern european lap dances aren't really 'dances'!

In fairness though, most of the "package tour" operators from the UK that arrange these types of get-aways play by the UK rules for them. Stag Republic is the main one in the UK and their rules have the typical "look but don't touch" policy. There's the iffy area of sex tourism and various regulations that they're required to abide by and while someone could easily arrange the most explicit entertainments themselves (and it'd be a darn site easier to do that in say, Amsterdam or even Brussels/Antwerp), if booking through a package company, it isn't going to be a Caligula-esque experiment in decadence.

Dontknowanymore

janninew wrote: »

Its not the thought of my daughter/parents being sexual that bothers me at all. I would hate, hate, hate my daughter to have a job that entails her to dance naked around/on top of strange men. I asked my husband and he is of the same opinion as me. The thought of my parents having sex doesn't bother me, I hope they do, its all part of a natural, healthy relationship.

Well obviously! but I still don't want to think of them actually doing it!

Errata

Dontknowanymore wrote: »

Well obviously! but I still don't want to think of them actually doing it!

Some things are best left unimagined, and that's one of them.
Some posters have stated they wouldn't object to their daughters becoming strippers. I wonder if they've realised that some of the men watching their daughters will afterwards fantasise about them whilst giving themselves a good seeing to?

andrealm

Errata wrote: »

Some things are best left unimagined, and that's one of them.
Some posters have stated they wouldn't object to their daughters becoming strippers. I wonder if they've realised that some of the men watching their daughters will afterwards fantasise about them whilst giving themselves a good seeing to?

Possibly, but so might the man that sits across from them if they work in an office, or a neighbour. The same could be said if their daughter became a famous singer or actress. As you say, some things are best left unimagined.

Fang_3

Errata wrote: »

Some things are best left unimagined, and that's one of them.
Some posters have stated they wouldn't object to their daughters becoming strippers. I wonder if they've realised that some of the men watching their daughters will afterwards fantasise about them whilst giving themselves a good seeing to?

And heaven forbid their daughter might do the same about someone she's just met on a bus. Oh the horror!

Tropez

Errata wrote: »

I wonder if they've realised that some of the men watching their daughters will afterwards fantasise about them whilst giving themselves a good seeing to?

That doesn't really mean much though. Men and women will fantasise about many other men and women for their mental stimulation. There's people out there who fantasise about celebrities who have never even done a nude scene or shoot, or there's people who fantasise about that person at work, or their friend's partner, or the person who works at the local Starbucks, or the postal worker etc. etc.

There's probably a few men, and maybe some women, out there who have fantasised about my partner (particularly when she worked as a nurse). It doesn't bother me. I would probably be more alarmed if I discovered that I had never, ever been the object of anybody's fantasy... luckily, I can continue to believe I have.

Dontknowanymore

Errata wrote: »

Some things are best left unimagined, and that's one of them.
Some posters have stated they wouldn't object to their daughters becoming strippers. I wonder if they've realised that some of the men watching their daughters will afterwards fantasise about them whilst giving themselves a good seeing to?

And??????????????

Errata

Tropez wrote: »

That doesn't really mean much though. Men and women will fantasise about many other men and women for their mental stimulation. There's people out there who fantasise about celebrities who have never even done a nude scene or shoot, or there's people who fantasise about that person at work, or their friend's partner, or the person who works at the local Starbucks, or the postal worker etc. etc.

There's probably a few men, and maybe some women, out there who have fantasised about my partner (particularly when she worked as a nurse). It doesn't bother me. I would probably be more alarmed if I discovered that I had never, ever been the object of anybody's fantasy... luckily, I can continue to believe I have.

I'm sure you're right, but she wasn't working stark naked and doing bumps and grinds whilst she was putting a cannula in.

Tropez

Errata wrote: »

I'm sure you're right, but she wasn't working stark naked and doing bumps and grinds whilst she was putting a cannula in.

True, to the best of my knowledge - but that is beside the point. You specifically referred to men pleasuring themselves to an erotic fantasy of a person's daughter in a scenario where the daughter were a stripper. It doesn't make any difference whatsoever what job somebody has - people may very well choose to fantasise about them regardless.

Fang_3

Errata wrote: »

I'm sure you're right, but she wasn't working stark naked and doing bumps and grinds whilst she was putting a cannula in.

So? It seems to me that your posts are designed to do nothing other than attempt to make people say 'Oh no! That's disgusting and wrong! I was wrong about that!'.