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  • liney
    liney Posts: 5,122 Forumite
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    Perhaps the persistant phone calls and texts were in the hope the Manager would notice, and suddenly decide the OP wasn't suitable afterall?
    "On behalf of teachers, I'd like to dedicate this award to Michael Gove and I mean dedicate in the Anglo Saxon sense which means insert roughly into the anus of." My hero, Mr Steer.
  • sueeve
    sueeve Posts: 470 Forumite
    That number of texts in such a short time constitutes stalking. Leave her alone to do her job. You do not own her. If she finds the job intimidating she will leave, but I am sure that she is capable of making her own decisions.
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    meplus5 wrote: »
    Ok for an update, I wanted my ex partner to see other peoples points of view, I don't think it's helped in the way I wanted but it has opened my eyes to how much of a controlling, bullying relationship I was in. I went to the club for 2 hours last night and it was fine no flirting or trouble yes mainly men but playing skittles, snooker and watching football quietly.

    I had over 15 phone calls and 17 texts from my ex in that time ranging from nice to nasty.

    120 minutes and he phoned or texted you 32 times! That's about once every 4 minutes - not the behaviour of a reasonable person.
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