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My partner has spent our savings!

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  • I am also guessing that it took a lot of courage for him to face you with what he has done, so even though what he has done is wrong , at least he could talk to you about it - which I think means a lot about your relationship. I would have still strung him up by his short & curlys but what I am trying to say is that he did come to you and hopefully you can work it out together.
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  • jak
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    Thanks for that. I do really love him and I will still marry him. I'll have to give him spending and he can give me the rest. E-bay here I come.
    x
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  • jak wrote:
    Thanks for that. I do really love him and I will still marry him. I'll have to give him spending and he can give me the rest. E-bay here I come.
    x

    LOL its a 10p listing day today so get your skates on :rotfl:
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  • jak
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    You got it!!! I'm at work...boo. Not online at home so i'll leg it to the library later.
    He's gone to get the rest of themoney out! Got to say, I don't think there's any left. He's not very keen... sh**ing himself to be precise.
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  • jak wrote:
    You got it!!! I'm at work...boo. Not online at home so i'll leg it to the library later.
    He's gone to get the rest of themoney out! Got to say, I don't think there's any left. He's not very keen... sh**ing himself to be precise.


    aww stop it.......Im starting to feel sorry for him now :rotfl:
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  • jak
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    DON'T! He is a bit sad and sorry at the mo. Hang dog to be precise!
    But at least he'll take it seriously I hope. He's no idea of the value of money. And he needs to get it!!!
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  • Good luck Jak, I don't envy you, but at least he came to you - must have taken him some guts to do that.

    You'll work this out with him. All the best xx
    Wannabee champagne girl...on a beer income.
  • jak
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    Thanks. I hopefully this is the shake up he needed to sort himself out moneywise! Eternal optimist!
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  • jak
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    It's all gone. £1500. Oh my god. I'm not surprised which is scary. Feeling very sorry for myself now!
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  • You didnt notice him spending £250 a month on stuff or going out. :S
    Total CC Debt: £1750
    Overdraft £1300
    Car Loan £1750

    Savings £0
    Redundancy OCT £2000
    Wage this month £540

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