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Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! 2

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  • 2ba3c
    2ba3c Posts: 1,138 Forumite
    tattoo- wrote: »
    Does everyone get offered it? I don't think we will, it wouldn't bother me if our baby had downs.

    Does this test pose any risks to the baby, if yes - we wont get it done.

    We wouldn't abort a baby who had a high risk of downs, so if we could get the test done with no risks, we will - just so we know/are prepared.
    Baby 2b born March 2013! :j:j:j
  • LittleMoog
    LittleMoog Posts: 2,392 Forumite
    countrybum wrote: »
    thanks savage - so will I have consulatant appointments inbetween mw ones? They'll prob change their minds though - I've got a cleft lip and palate and the mw seemed to think I might need more monitoring? Also we had fertility issues so I'm not sure if that plays a part in it too?

    I'm under consultant led care for my thyroid condition, so far (24 weeks) I've had 3 appointments with consultant on top of the normal ones with midwife. Might be that you see the obstetrics consultant, and they do an extra thorough 20week scan to check for a cleft, or scans later in pg, if 20 weeks is too early. I seem to remember that on OBEM last series there was a couple who's baby had a cleft lip, which had been picked up at a scan.
    Little monkey born November 2012:j
    Froglet due March 2016 :D
  • LittleMoog
    LittleMoog Posts: 2,392 Forumite
    2ba3c wrote: »
    Does this test pose any risks to the baby, if yes - we wont get it done.

    We wouldn't abort a baby who had a high risk of downs, so if we could get the test done with no risks, we will - just so we know/are prepared.

    Nuchal fold test is just a measurement they take on the scan, plus some bloods from you - they combine results in some sort of complex algorithm to produce a risk eg 1 in 24000. I believe "high risk" is 1 in 50, which is still only 0.5% chance. But you could then choose to have one of the more invasive tests (amniocentesis, CVS) to confirm/rule out. We had the nuchal fold test but wouldn't have had any of the others, as we wouldn't abort a down's baby but would use the knowledge to prepare/read up if it came back high risk.
    Little monkey born November 2012:j
    Froglet due March 2016 :D
  • savageHK
    savageHK Posts: 1,253 Forumite
    LittleMoog wrote: »
    Nuchal fold test is just a measurement they take on the scan, plus some bloods from you - they combine results in some sort of complex algorithm to produce a risk eg 1 in 24000. I believe "high risk" is 1 in 50, which is still only 0.5% chance. But you could then choose to have one of the more invasive tests (amniocentesis, CVS) to confirm/rule out. We had the nuchal fold test but wouldn't have had any of the others, as we wouldn't abort a down's baby but would use the knowledge to prepare/read up if it came back high risk.
    ...and the invasive tests do have a risk of miscarriage, I can't remember the exact stats but it was along the lines of having a higher chance of miscarrying a healthy baby as a result than actually having a Down's baby in the first place :eek:
  • tattoo-
    tattoo- Posts: 260 Forumite
    2b, I think they can tell from the scan, if not they can do an amniocentesis test where they put a needle through your abdominal wall and collect some amniotic fluid, I think!
  • tattoo-
    tattoo- Posts: 260 Forumite
    oops! we all posted at the same time!
  • ikkle87
    ikkle87 Posts: 8,449 Forumite
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    LittleMoog wrote: »
    I'm under consultant led care for my thyroid condition, so far (24 weeks) I've had 3 appointments with consultant on top of the normal ones with midwife. Might be that you see the obstetrics consultant, and they do an extra thorough 20week scan to check for a cleft, or scans later in pg, if 20 weeks is too early. I seem to remember that on OBEM last series there was a couple who's baby had a cleft lip, which had been picked up at a scan.

    Yep and they are pregnant again too :)
    You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

    xx Mama to a gorgeous Cranio Baby xx
  • Lozzy88
    Lozzy88 Posts: 780 Forumite
    Fifth Anniversary 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    Thank you all for keep everything crossed... it worked! :T:beer::j:A

    Baby is perfect, they think the bleed was something to do with the implant, I have a little bit of news too, i`m a bit further along than i first thought.

    I`m actually 18 weeks 4 days!!!!!

    If i wasnt already layed on the bed i think i would of fell over!

    So my Due date is 24th of December :eek::eek::eek:

    I was in such shock i never asked to buy a picture, i didnt ask if they could tell the sex, but it had fingers and toes and arms and legs and a head.

    I am super excited now tho :j

    Thank you all again for your kind words i think if it sinks in i will graduate to the other pregnancy thread.
  • Millie2008_2
    Millie2008_2 Posts: 1,584 Forumite
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    Wooooooopppppp! I am so thrilled for you, I must admit I did fear the worst when you posted before.

    Hang around here for as long as you feel ready. I imagine it will take some time to sink in
  • Lozzy88
    Lozzy88 Posts: 780 Forumite
    Fifth Anniversary 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    Millie2008 wrote: »
    Wooooooopppppp! I am so thrilled for you, I must admit I did fear the worst when you posted before.


    Thank you :D I did too i have had little bleeds with both of my pregnancys but it was nothing compared to that, i am soooo happy that everythings okay, i get my 20 weeks scan on the 10th of August i will be 20+5 then.
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