Mooloo's New Home, New Year and New Start part 3

MatyMoo

Hugs Gizmo - I admire you for doing the job you do. I am sure that there is a vast range of tasks you have to do and some will be far more difficult than others. I think it takes special people to do it well and we only ever get to hear about the ones that go wrong in the press which is very sad and must be disheartening to those in the profession.

Mooloo - You seem to have had a tough week again. Sorry you are in such pain.

Molly - Hope you are on the mend.

gizmo111

Molly41 wrote: »

Hugs to you Gizmo x

MatyMoo wrote: »

Hugs Gizmo - I admire you for doing the job you do. I am sure that there is a vast range of tasks you have to do and some will be far more difficult than others. I think it takes special people to do it well and we only ever get to hear about the ones that go wrong in the press which is very sad and must be disheartening to those in the profession.

Mooloo - You seem to have had a tough week again. Sorry you are in such pain.

Molly - Hope you are on the mend.

Thanks all for your kind words - I don't know about the special people bit but I've been in floods of tears more than once this week, even thought seriously about going to work in tesco, but I feel better now and know that hard as it is I have done the right thing by the childen and the whole family really.
Next week is going to be a good week for us all and I think I may even start a thread (instead of hijacking mooloos daily) on things that have made us feel good (or bad even) today - anyone fancy that?

Molly - glad you're getting a little better

Mooloo - things will work out :A

Molly41

Hi Gizmo - there is already one on Old Style -
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2039611

I always read it and they are a lovely bunch of people xx

Savvy_sewing

gizmo111 wrote: »

Thanks all for your kind words - I don't know about the special people bit but I've been in floods of tears more than once this week, even thought seriously about going to work in tesco, but I feel better now and know that hard as it is I have done the right thing by the childen and the whole family really.
Next week is going to be a good week for us all and I think I may even start a thread (instead of hijacking mooloos daily) on things that have made us feel good (or bad even) today - anyone fancy that?

Molly - glad you're getting a little better

Mooloo - things will work out :A

Oh I dont mind you hijacking my thread as you call it. I think that everyones input and that the rest of the world is having a few problems helps to ground me somewhat! But if you do start a thread, then please give us a link to it so I can find you. I am not very good at searching. The threads I subscribe to have all been pointed in my direction. Unless I have happened upon them by chance!.

Molly you are up too early again! I hope you get some rest.
I shall require a little bit of help in choosing my curtain fabrics soon you know!. I will need you fit enoough to come to the Fabric shops! I dont want to buy my curtains fabrics on line! Incase I get it wrong. Those windows are quite large really!.

I am sure that the department you work in Gizmo,is much more efficient then the one I have to deal with!.
Even going to the top, I just got fobbed off!.

Today, is another day. Lets hope that I manage to get through the day, without crippling myself too much.
I was supposed to clear the boxes in the corner of the sittingroom at least 3 days ago. But what with one thing and another, I seem to have just added to it!! :eek:
Time for some breakfast and to get my act together.
Hoping that Biggest of Mooloo can manage to borrow a car and can still come for a visit this morning. Then BF is due to come over here from Oxford today. Not sure at what time though!.

Molly41

Oh I will really enjoy mooching around the shops again:T:T:T We go at the same slow pace, stop start, sit down on any available seat or show bed!! Hope you have a lovely weekend xx

Savvy_sewing

Biggest is now not able to come over today. So no time out from DGD, as we had hoped.
Now BF is not sure he can come over either. Feeling pretty devastated at that. i hope he does change his mind and can come. I hate the weekends without him. Its hard enough being apart all week.!
Not my lucky day so far then.

MatyMoo

gizmo111 wrote: »

Thanks all for your kind words - I don't know about the special people bit but I've been in floods of tears more than once this week, even thought seriously about going to work in tesco, but I feel better now and know that hard as it is I have done the right thing by the childen and the whole family really.

Gizmo, please accept the compliment. I think there are some people born to do the job they do and do it well for little thanks and have to face difficult choices daily. They ARE special people

Mooloo wrote: »

Biggest is now not able to come over today. So no time out from DGD, as we had hoped.
Now BF is not sure he can come over either. Feeling pretty devastated at that. i hope he does change his mind and can come. I hate the weekends without him. Its hard enough being apart all week.!
Not my lucky day so far then.

Sorry you won't get to see biggest today and that BF may not get there either Lets hope he changes his mind quickly

Savvy_sewing

MatyMoo wrote: »

Gizmo, please accept the compliment. I think there are some people born to do the job they do and do it well for little thanks and have to face difficult choices daily. They ARE special people



Sorry you won't get to see biggest today and that BF may not get there either Lets hope he changes his mind quickly

BF is coming over later now. He is, alas going through a "youllbe better off with out me" mode. I believe this is spurred on by the SW calling him yesterday and making an appointment to talk to him about his side in our lives.
Last time he "ran away" if you remember. We have been having some very worrying texts back and forth, but I have managed to get him to come over afterall. I cannot discuss something so important as our relationship via text messages.!
I am sad, upset and low now.
I had such a flurry in my chest when he sent some negative messages. He seemed to be trying to get me to end it? But why? We have had a good relationship since our hiccup last summer.?
:shocked:
Lets hope that we can sort this out when DGD is in bed.? She has fallen asleep on the sofa, which is a sign she is still not 100%. But it will give me 45mins or so peace now.

I am not sure I could cope with him leaving me again, not now, when there is so much stress going on.

Molly41

Hugs my friend xx

minimoneysaver

He's probably just worried about the intrusion in his life from SS. I can't imagine it's a pleasant experience for anyone to go through. Big hugs Mooloo, I'm sure it'll all work out for you. Remember Everest and think about where you are now on your mountain.