MSE Pregnancy Club 20

annibee

I need some advice I dont usually post personal stuff on here but tbh its playig on my mind so much I should get it out - Do you think someone can invite me to the fb group then I can post it on there if its private (Im such a paranoid person I think if I say it on here then the people involved will read it and all hell will break loose)

My main problem is - and yes this is going to come accross as so sad - I dont really have any friends. You know when somethings on your mind and you can ring a mate and just chat it through - well I dont have that. I had a few friends treat me in unthinkable ways in the past and I had/have low self esteem so I hold back a bit with new people - throw in the fact I moved 200 miles away from everything I knew 18 months ago and you see the isolation Ive put myself in. Anyway the stuff on my mind would be great to just chat through with someone but I just have noone bar my oh who I can tell anything too but its not the same iyswim?

Wow I sound a bit pathetic. Anyway I dont want to bring everyone down but I feel like getting it out might help but I dont want to do that on a public forum iyswim so I thought since most of you are on th efb group I could post it on there? Im on RBG's friend list and initials are ab

LabLover

I think OH would be chuffed with the bright green one I like. We are scottish and he is a fan of a certain green coloured team , so will try and angle it that way. This one isnt like a handbag , it looks like a changing bag. Just dont know if I can justify it , but I want to be a yummy mummy and this could be the accesorie(sp) that tips the scale in my favour

nic2075

Congratulations Claire :T:T

((HUGS)) Hngrymummy, hope this passes soon.

((HUGS)) Sharkey, Your not bringing the thread down. I think all of us either have or will feel like that in the last few weeks. Its hard to enjoy your last wee bit off being your own person, while your uncomfortable.
Try and enjoy doing nothing. Maybe go and get pampered, meet friends, go out for a meal etc. These are all things you cant just do at a drop of a hat in a few weeks.


I feel huge and uncomfortable just now and im only 27 weeks. Im trying to enjoy being pregnant though as it will be my last time ever. I love the feeling of the wee wriggler growing inside me. I felt a huge loss when both mine were born. (not for long though)


Im off to have a toasted crumpet with butter and jam then clean the bathroom.

galvanizersbaby

sharkeybabe wrote: »

Morning everyone. Congrats to all the new arrivals - lovely names.

Well im sorry going to bring the thread down. I am so sick of being pregnant!! I am soooo tired and hardly slept a wink last night, I am feeling really weepy and even the simplest of things are exhausting me. I just want to be back to normal again, I know having a baby is going to be stressfull but I just want all this waiting to be over with. I am in constant pain down below and seem to be getting more fluid down there than normal (sorry TMI) and now Ive realised that my b 00 bs are leaking. Mr Sharkey is trying to be supportive but his constant laughing at me trying to walk/waddle is wearing thin now. I am sorry to be so depressed but I dont feel like I have anyone else to talk to as all DH seems interested in is DTD. I called the MW and all she said was I was to relax, im sick of relaxing.

Thanks for reading, sorry again.

Aww Sharkey - I remember feeling very much the same way in the late stages with DS - it was boiling blo*dy hot - everything had swollen up (couldn't fit any of my shoes and had to have my wedding ring cut off :eek:) and I generally wanted it over with.
Hang in there!!! x

LabLover

Annibee , I know what you mean . i have very small circle of "friends" we go for meals out once in a while and maybe for coffee but they are all anti-babies and I feel really left out. My OH and I have a couple we hang around with but I dont have a bond with the woman so dont feel I can share anything. So I feel like i have no-one to talk to other than my sister but Im going to make a real effort to make mummy friends. Im going to make a point of talking to women at antenatal and Im going to get my midwife to put me in touch with the new mums group. Also when Im on maternity im going to go with SIL to her sons playgroup to meet some mums.Could you maybe do something like that?

galvanizersbaby

LabLover wrote: »

I think OH would be chuffed with the bright green one I like. We are scottish and he is a fan of a certain green coloured team , so will try and angle it that way. This one isnt like a handbag , it looks like a changing bag. Just dont know if I can justify it , but I want to be a yummy mummy and this could be the accesorie(sp) that tips the scale in my favour

lol! :rotfl:

I hope to retain my yummy mummy status - however from experience I know that slummy mummy tends to come first before you get yummy again!

LabLover

Lol, I know im somewhat delusional , but hoping a bright green bag draws the eye away from greasy trailer trash hair and joggers covered in baby sick

galvanizersbaby

annibee - I'm at work at the mo hun so can't add you (we are not allowed to access private networking sites )

I am on RBG's friend list so I will look you out over the weekend.

I don't have lots of close friends myself but I do have 2 sisters both of whom I'm close to so I am lucky there.

Otherwise feel free to PM me x

galvanizersbaby

LabLover wrote: »

Lol, I know im somewhat delusional , but hoping a bright green bag draws the eye away from greasy trailer trash hair and joggers covered in baby sick

lol! :rotfl:I like your thinking LabLover.

I feel much more cheerful now! - still not cheerful enough to actually do any work although I have been in the office almost 2 hours now and have done nothing but post on mSE!:eek:

nic2075

LabLover wrote: »

Lol, I know im somewhat delusional , but hoping a bright green bag draws the eye away from greasy trailer trash hair and joggers covered in baby sick

I dont think ive ever looked like a yummy mummy not pushing my old skanky Maclaren, wellies and bright red regatta jacket. When I lived in Glasgow I always dressed nice and had nice shoes lol but now I blend with all the other country folk lol.