MSE Pregnancy Club 20

Rockinbikergal

annibee wrote: »

Hi honeypop congrats and welcome.

omg Im addicted to scrabble again lol - after a looong time away after you guys mentioned it I started playing and I cant stop - not winning but oh well.

I have been beaten in every game I have played so far...does a sideways glance at Tickle and Giz, lol

Welcome Honeypop

Perdi

Thanks for the reply RBG.
There's no link I can click on though?

Rockinbikergal

Perdi wrote: »

Thanks for the reply RBG.
There's no link I can click on though?

Oops baby brain I forgetted to put it in lmao

http://www.dunelm-mill.com/shop/fogarty-v-shaped-orthopaedic-support-pillow-72569

Perdi

Rockinbikergal wrote: »

Oops baby brain I forgetted to put it in lmao

http://www.dunelm-mill.com/shop/fogarty-v-shaped-orthopaedic-support-pillow-72569

I know the feeling, forgot something on nearly every weekend shop so far, sometimes even when I had it written down!

Thank you. I got confused on whether to get a V, straight or even U shaped one!

annibee

Rockinbikergal wrote: »

I have been beaten in every game I have played so far...does a sideways glance at Tickle and Giz, lol

Welcome Honeypop

I would play with you all but I dont have your fb's maybe i can find your games?

annibee

RBG youll have to invite me as it wont let me invite you

Rockinbikergal

annibee wrote: »

RBG youll have to invite me as it wont let me invite you

okie dokie

Have started a new game with you

galvanizersbaby

honeypop wrote: »

Knew there was another post I quoted but it went missing...



After having DS by CS, we always made it clear to the HV, midwives and our GP that we intended to TTC when DS was around 12 months as I wondered if there was a certain time we should wait, and was never told to wait longer, it was never mentioned that there was a suggested timeframe - I wonder if the advice is another thing that depends on the trust so lots of people get differing advice?

Yes probably advice differs from area to area - also I am going back 8 years so advice may have changed now - I never intended to concieve my DD so soon - I was advised by the consultant that ideally should wait think it was 2 years to TTC no 2 - I assume to fully recover and make rupture of the womb less likely? - not sure
I elected for another CS with DD and the surgeon doing the section cut her head (not anything awful thank god - just a couple of steri strips worth of damage) - he did comment that the lining of my womb was paper thin apparently and I had made the correct choice having the section :eek:
I've no regrets personally but I know others who would have liked to have given birth naturally

annibee

Rockinbikergal wrote: »

okie dokie

Have started a new game with you

sorry on way now ds1 decided to wee on my leg lol

galvanizersbaby

annibee wrote: »

Hi Galvanizer - this is my 2nd baby and my oh's first - how do you talk about it - sometimes I feel as if Im being too "know it all" and I dont want him to feel left out - does this even make sense?:o

my oh is wonderful and v supportive - takes everything in his stride but im very concious to not be mentioning what ex was like at birth so its hard to say what i want and what i dont without saying - this wasnt helpful last time iykwim

Hello

Yes I do know what you mean about sounding know-it-all - I keep taking over a bit - OH wants to be involved with everything from choosing stuff for the baby (DD also keen to help) down to actually being there.

We have been together over 5 years now and he has seen the pics of DS and DD with my ex at birth - so think he is a bit desensitised in that respect but I do know what you mean - it is tricky sometimes.

With some aspects of my previous pregnancies and afterwards he is already aware of what my ex was like - contributed to some of the reasons for our divorce - I think he is being ultra careful not to make the same mistakes bless him - though he couldn't even if he tried

We are supposed to be going out pushchair shopping this weekend and I am going to make an effort to let him and DD take the lead - under my careful supervision of course