Holiday without me?

hitchins

Caroline_a wrote: »

That was what I wanted to know.

Sheesh! You're all going wrong, simply do away with all your child's necessities, fashion a drawer Brittas Empire style, saves on buying a cot, hop down to Lunn Poly and voila!!

*Louise*

hitchins wrote: »

Sheesh! You're all going wrong, simply do away with all your child's necessities, fashion a drawer Brittas Empire style, saves on buying a cot, hop down to Lunn Poly and voila!!

Ahhh I knew I was going wrong somewhere!

Money_maker

If worst comes to the worst, you may need to track down his son or family and get some information from them. Seems odd that this man brought him up but they don't see each other, don't you think?

The housework bit would only impress me if he were out working for a living and earning for his family - who is subsiding him with his expensive lifestyle?

Where do you see yourself in 10 years time? You may be scared of what's going to happen now but 10 years down the line with this man is a whole lot scarier. Don't waste your life.

I would tell you to get him to shape up or ship out - find a job, look after his family and treat you with the respect you deserve. But you won't cos you know he cant or wont do it. Scrape this lowlife off your boot and take your family and go. He has nothing to give but takes everything from you. You can do so much better, you really can.

puppypants

Quietapine is a drug used to treat schizophrenia and the manic phases of bipolar disorders. Looks like Camber could be in for a rougher ride at some time in the future if she doesn't get out now!!

(I am in no way denigrating those with schizophrenia or bipolar, but seems to me a rather important mental illness to keep from the person you marry!!)

meritaten

Camber? all I can say is you have been told that most of us wont put up with your OH. YOU are not alone in thinking HIS behaviour is unacceptable. YOU need to gather your courage now and get in touch with womens refuge or make your own plans to escape this man. DO NOT BELIEVE that your own bipolar disorder is at fault! its not! he is playing with your head sweety. bipolar is more to do with emotions and moods - not intelligence or common sense - you still have those but this guy has undermined you to such an extent you believe YOU are at fault - and if other posters are right and you have posted under other names - then can you FINALLY believe you are not the nutter here? he is?