MSE Parents Club Part 15

tiamai_d

Next time you'll have a bee in your bonnet and scare them all so much they will do what you want. Trust me.

I also forgot what else I was going to say...

Evansangel

Bruno, that auto correct site had me and DH in hysterics! Im actually crying because of laughing so much :rotfl:

redmel1621

Just out of (strange) curiosity, can someone opt for a c-section, just because they want one? Or, for example, if they want to be sterilised at the same time?

Hugs sm...I hope you can find the extra 4hrs you need soonish:(

caspie_2

i thought i had the picture thing cracked and worked out a link to my facebook but it wont let me link. Oh well, if anyone really wants to see him i am on the fairy exchange on fb and he is my profile pic, i am t s was w. maybe when i have posted a few more times i can try again?
have read quite a few pages but only have memories of the last few posts, not sure how you guys remember everything,

sm thats awful i like gisi's plan!, thanks susan and ss that must have been so scary, its hard enough when you do understand the language

xx

SugarSpun

Thanks GISI and :rotfl: Tia

I've just spilled all my excess anger onto my upstairs neighbour. The legal quiet hours here start at 11pm but our lease states that house quiet hours are from 10pm. The cluckwit upstairs waiting till 10:05 to start sawing something in the hallway so he didn't get dust in his flat, which of course woke the beastie after it took an hour, an application of Calpol and an infinite amount of singing to get her and her throbbing gums to sleep. He had the cheek to tell me that he works all day and has to do this stuff at night - fine, but waiting till 10pm when I know he gets home at 4 because he starts stomping around like a herd of flaming elephants is not on and I want him evicted and/or deceased.

redmel1621

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Evening all Hope everyone is okay xx

As I gave Benjamin his bath tonight he was singing 'ceebeebies, ceebeebies, ceebeebies' we don't even have it on that much!!

He also also started to say 'Yes, I Like That' and 'I Can't Do That' :T:T

Hubby picked him up from the CM and he was wearing a witches hat, he has had it on all day and wouldn't let anyone remove it....until he saw me and then he said 'Mum hat' and put it on me!!!

Apparently my son thinks I am a witch :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

:T:TClever benjamin:D
I am sooo not jealous of your little chatterbox:whistle:

aless02

I object to the principle of our induction-happy culture, mismanagement of which has led to an increased EMCS rate in recent decades through no fault of the mothers. Your experiences just make me :mad: and I wish more women were aware and empowered enough to refuse non-necessary ones.


Bruno - I could understand if she went off using the American words for thing, but hammer? That's a new one for me.

SusanC_2

SugarSpun wrote: »

I wouldn't consider anyone else a failure, just as I wouldn't consider a planned C-section a failure. One of my main faults is my need to be in control, so any loss of control feels like a failure.

For me it's not the C-section itself that was the bit I failed at; it was the mismanagement leading up to it that I failed to control - I knew there should have been a catheter but didn't feel able to speak up, and the absent catheter led to a bladder so swollen that it cut off the blood supply to my placenta. A future C-section would feel like the result of the first, which I still feel was caused by my failure to speak up about something I knew was necessary.

I understand what you mean. Do doulas exist in Germany? And have you had words with your husband about how you expect him to behave next time e.g. what language he should be speaking in?

SusanC_2

SugarSpun wrote: »

When I start feeling that things are out of my control I get very insistent on planning things in minute detail. I am not pregnant but considering my options - if I were planning more than two children than a VBAC would be in my best interests, hence VBAC for me with the chance that it will fail and I will feel even more like a failure as a babymaker.

An attempted VBAC that ends in a CS (although understandably upsetting) would not make you a failure as a babymaker. And Molly seems pretty good to me so you haven't failed at babymaking so far.

SusanC_2

searching_me wrote: »

WARNING MAOOOSSIVE RANT ...

:grouphug: That must be very frustrating and infuriating.