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mum2one

nickyhutch wrote: »

Still not getting it, sorry

If you didn;t think he was going to assault you, or kidnap you, I don;t see why you would feel unsafe. I do think, on the whole, you've overreacted.

Most prob me not explaining - may sound odd but it was his attitude, he was forceful, rude, tone and mannerisms, I felt that there may of been abuse off him, that was why I did not feel safe.

funkycat06

i work for tesco and i can honestly say i don't think that would ever happen in our store thank god

catch_me_if_you_can

Amanita wrote: »

Ah that might explain why they once sent me Martini rather than bananas!

Does anyone actually drink that anymore? The bottle went to a charity tombola in the end.

didn't the delivery guy tell you of the substitute?

bylromarha

I had an experience like this a few years back.

I wrote to head office and told them that I was complainig as I wanted to make CS better for everyone and how could I do that? She sent me details of the company that mystery shops them - new career (and money) for me - and I get to input into my local stores.

marleyboy

nickyhutch wrote: »

Still not getting it, sorry

If you didn;t think he was going to assault you, or kidnap you, I don;t see why you would feel unsafe. I do think, on the whole, you've overreacted.

Vulnerable, I imagine the OP wanted a witness with her (as is her entitlement), this could be for a variety of reasons, from the fear of him planting goods on her to him being over aggressive to a woman in her position that being a disability.

linuxsapien

I too am disgusted by your brainwashed assumption that every man i some predator out to get you. You admit to point blank refuse to move.. Why wouldn’t you go to a much quieter place? Its almost like you enjoyed the little excitement of everyone watching you? You had your choice, so you cant moan about this.

You feel violated because he brought out the underwear? What meds are you taking miss? He had to look at everything, its not like he went out his way to search for items as such. I actually feel sorry for the security guard having to do that in public, try standing in other peoples shoes now and again!

Whats a Jedward T-shirt gotta do with anything?

The apology was given, what more do you want?

Googlewhacker

*SmallFry* wrote: »

I had a problem with a CS advisor over a DTD, I used the email and I got a £20 gift card for my hassle

I found it here http://www.connectotel.com/marcus/ceoemail.html

I never said it wasn't a valid email address, I just don't believe for one second that he would have that as his personal business email address.

Also I see that is Sir 'I suggest you escalate' Marcus' email website!

marleyboy

nutellajunkie wrote: »

I too am disgusted by your brainwashed assumption that every man i some predator out to get you. You admit to point blank refuse to move.. Why wouldn’t you go to a much quieter place? Its almost like you enjoyed the little excitement of everyone watching you? You had your choice, so you cant moan about this.

You feel violated because he brought out the underwear? What meds are you taking miss? He had to look at everything, its not like he went out his way to search for items as such. I actually feel sorry for the security guard having to do that in public, try standing in other peoples shoes now and again!

Whats a Jedward T-shirt gotta do with anything?

The apology was given, what more do you want?

In all fairness I dont think the OP has EVER accused anyone of being a sexual predator, the OP did explain it was more to do with the attitude of a member of staff, who was groaning about having to assist somebody with a disability.

By the time an alarm rang (due to the fault of the same member of staff), the OP (already annoyed at the lack of service), never refused to accompany a security guard to a private room, she requested that someone else be there with them (as is her right), either a manager or supervisor, had this been obliged, I have no doubt she would have happily gone into a private room for a search.

It might be a good idea if you read the thread properly, before jumping to the wrong conclusions so abruptly.

mum2one

marleyboy wrote: »

Vulnerable, I imagine the OP wanted a witness with her (as is her entitlement), this could be for a variety of reasons, from the fear of him planting goods on her to him being over aggressive to a woman in her position that being a disability.

Thank you, couldn't of put it better myself, - I couldn't borrow you for my next OU assisgnment - your way with words would get me top marks x

mum2one

nutellajunkie wrote: »

I too am disgusted by your brainwashed assumption that every man i some predator out to get you. You admit to point blank refuse to move.. Why wouldn’t you go to a much quieter place? Its almost like you enjoyed the little excitement of everyone watching you? You had your choice, so you cant moan about this.

i never said that everyman is a predator, you must have some sort of warped mind to think like that.

If you read the posts - your see I said that I refused to move as I had asked for a manager to be present, and I certainly did not enjoy the fact that people are watching... it certains strengthens my thoughts that you must have a warped and perverted mind to think that way.

You feel violated because he brought out the underwear? What meds are you taking miss? He had to look at everything, its not like he went out his way to search for items as such. I actually feel sorry for the security guard having to do that in public, try standing in other peoples shoes now and again!
Excuse me but you weren't there, he routed through the underwear, and these items were not security tagged, - and his attitude - he accused me of hiding items in the coat which was cmpletely untrue. He went out of his way to search the items, he ignored my requests for a witness and that violated my human rights if you want to be so picky.

Take your own advice - stand in other peoples shoes - and see how you feel.

Whats a Jedward T-shirt gotta do with anything?

The apology was given, what more do you want?

The comment regarding the jedward tshirt, was in relation to the general shopping experience and that it was my daughters.