Broken down and very scared

Daisy4567

little_miss_T wrote: »

New account is open so I will withdraw all of the money that is in there today and get joint account closed.

Also had a bit of a breakthrough.. Husband has agreed to see me today, to talk about money and things, so I might even get my laptop back

Will keep you posted xx

Hello, Just been reading your issues - you poor love!

What a complete and utter !!!!!! (word I cannot use on here)

I echo all previous sentiments and definately agree you are best shut now than later - plus what a complete wuss and coward to behave like he has.

Stand your ground today and if I was you take a witness.

Good luck and big hugs xxx

little_miss_T

Well, I waited and waited and he has not turned up. He is now ignoring my texts and calls xx

ali-t

little_miss_T wrote: »

Well, I waited and waited and he has not turned up. He is now ignoring my texts and calls xx

What a total A-hole - lucky escape even though it might not feel like it just now.

adiwood

Hi,

Really sorry to hear what has happened to you. I am not far off your age and couldn't even imagine walking out on a gf (if I had one! :rotfl:)

Remain strong, and with the support on here you will get through it and come out stronger.

I will follow you on here.

Keep Smiling

Adi

regan.lottie

Have been following this for a few days now and feel I should offer some support, even if it is only a virtual hug.
Keep strong and remember how much better off you are now without him

Lottie

dearbarbie

god it sounds like he's still trying to control you! what an *****!

any word from his family? cant you just rock up at his parents' house? with your bro?

londongirl1984

Wow, he sounds like he is completely immature and ignorant to the position he has put you in. He's obviously playing games with you. The best advice I would give you is to try not to deal with him at all. If you can do it through his family or something then I would suggest that you do, because it sounds like he will play games with you. You've asked a number of times for your laptop etc, and he must think it's funny to get you to think he's ready to talk. Remain strong, you're doing really well.

Hug

BILLIE

Litle Miss T I would suggest that you change your mobile number so that he cannot contact you other than via a friend. If you must contact him before you change it and tell him that he has to contact you through "????" and hopefully that will reduce the upset he appears to want to continue to hand out. chin up you will get there. Billie xx

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How are you getting on Miss T?

Did you manage to contact your husband?Did you manage to close the joint account? And, how are you coping?

I hope you are managing to carry on with the resolve and determination you started with!

Domino9

little_miss_T

Hi guys. Sorry I haven't posted for a while.

Well, I eventually spoke to him, and he is being very vague about things.
So I told him last night that I am moving out and there is nothing else to

The joint account cannot be closed because I cant get my wage transferred into my new account until
Pay day after this one, so I will just have to trans the money manually when I get paid xx