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Has anyone been told the wrong gender at 20 week scan?
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My friend got told she was having a girl, spent loads on pink clothing, had a name chosen and then out popped a little boy. To say she was in shock was an understatement.0
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I heard that if you were told it's a boy it's 95% accurate but if you are told it's a girl it's only 75%. I assume this is because they can't see his boy bits so they assume it's a girl??
We were pointed towards the screen and told that the hospital will not tell you for definate, but this looks like boy bits, but we don't guarantee anything.0 -
It happened to me i was told i was having a girl but i had a boy.0
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I think that you should always be grateful for a healthy child. I can't understand people wanting to sue for being told the wrong gender at a scan - unless they were having it for medical reasons i.e. a gender specific genetic condition that their unborn child might have.
Back in the day when I had my eldest children they didn't tell you the sex and I was absolutely stunned when I had a girl after two boys. After this I was convinced that my fourth was a girl - it wasn't. I was told at my 20 week scan that number five was a boy and with number six because of my age I paid privately to have a nt scan (local hospital didn't do them) to be told I was having a girl at 11+ weeks which was confirmed by a CV test at 14 weeks.
I'm glad that I've experienced both the surprise and the knowing what I was having. If I was starting over I think I would still like my first baby's sex to be a surprise.0 -
I was told throughout one of my 9month baby bumps that I was having a little girl admittedly this wasn't done by scan but my midwife kept commenting on the heartbeat being fast.I have no idea if a girls heartbeat is faster than a boys .Now having already had 3 boys I was so so happy to be having a little pinky finally, went and kitted "her" out in pink pink and more pink ,decorated the little room into a pink nursery.Well I went into labour on my due date and 57 mins late i delivered a boy:eek:.The poor little lad was born with a hole in the heart and that was why his heart beat was so much faster.He had the op to close the hole at 7 month and all is well now.:j:j:j.Went on to have my little girl a year laterPaul Walker , in my dreams;)0
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I asked the sex of my first baby prior to my 20 week scan (I'm sure I was only about 13 weeks pregnant) - the sonographer said it looked like a little boy and she turned out to be right.
With DD I had a private scan for nuchal fold (you had to pay privately 7 years ago if you wanted anything other than the BARTS test screening wise)
I must have been very early on then and again I asked if he could see and he mentioned the 3 lines and said that he thought a girl (he was right)
We didn't tell anybody else that we knew the sex and I certainly wouldn't have thought about sueing anybody - it was made quite clear to us that it wasn't 100% accurate.0
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