Trying for a Baby Part Six

praline

Thanks again Emsbet. And Mr Praline is thanking you too as he was wondering why I was bawling.

I'm a bit relieved actually - if today is day 28 to midnight tonight I can expect AF later. Somehow, hoping for it (AF) just feels better. More..... controlled.

I'm going to B&Q now to get a part for the house. effing and blinding over some DIY (I do it) will occupy me.

I'll let you all know tomorrow... or later if I can either way.

colli

hey Praline! Our bodies throw us a curve ball every now and then, we're not robots . It's natural to be scared, having a baby is a big life change no matter how much it's wanted and planned. You'll be brilliant no matter what the outcome. xxx

mishkanorman

Hugs praline, im on my third and still have doubts/worries over the whole thing ! Its a good thing, shows you care

emsbet

It's perfectly normal to be scared. When I got my BFP I was sh*tting myself waiting for the test! I was shaking like a leaf

It's a normal reaction because until it happens no matter how much you want it it is still a very abstract concept.

xx

colli

bigzippy wrote: »

I can imagine that actually. I think I would feel incredibly shocked too... and I've not even been trying as long or going through as many procedures to get to this point.:o DH was talking about a job promotion he's thinking of going for, which would increase our income, by a good old whack, the other day...discussing what we could do with the money... and I said "or have IVF....y'know, if we needed it". I'm already mentally preparing for looking into adoption (although even if we had biological children it's something we'd like to consider), in a way. Then again, I've always worried that it's something I'd struggle to "naturally pull off"

Either way, I hope you get a "shock" soon.;)

I quite like the idea of adoption too, there are so many children out there who need a mum and dad. hope you're feeling better bz xx

emsbet

praline wrote: »

Thanks again Emsbet. And Mr Praline is thanking you too as he was wondering why I was bawling.

I'm a bit relieved actually - if today is day 28 to midnight tonight I can expect AF later. Somehow, hoping for it (AF) just feels better. More..... controlled.

I'm going to B&Q now to get a part for the house. effing and blinding over some DIY (I do it) will occupy me.

I'll let you all know tomorrow... or later if I can either way.

You're welcome, anytime

Now go to the BBQ and relax for a while and test again in the morning (or when you get back)

I have to go myself now DH is taking me out for Greek food nom nom!

Keep us posted

xx

colli

emsbet wrote: »

I have to go myself now DH is taking me out for Greek food nom nom!

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Nice! I could really eat some greek food, reminds me of holidays! :beer:

emsbet

colli wrote: »

emsbet wrote: »

I have to go myself now DH is taking me out for Greek food nom nom!

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Nice! I could really eat some greek food, reminds me of holidays! :beer:

Me too! the place by us does meze banquet for £18.95 per person and you get loads of food- we were begging them to stop bringing it near the end!

xx

praline

Oh enjoy the meze.... We go to Greece/Cyprus every year (bar this one ) and the food is definitely the highlight of my holidays ) Enjoy Emsbet! (Is the restaurant in London?)

Still waiting. Back from B&Q (not a BBQ unfortunately ( ). But I need to go back tomorrow for a screwdriver as mine are all too big.

still no movement. Now got a stress headache. Calmer though.... And still cramping. To be honest - I think AF will be here later as the cramping is fairly strong.

Thank you all for your support during my meltdown earlier.... I was online while stressing hence my posting and stressing at the same time.

RebekahR

I have tested this morning. BFN. Still spotting. Have period type cramps come on today. Coming on and off. No sign yet. Again another thing I don't normally get. I normally get period pain on the day it comes and not before. Another couple of days til I test again if it hasn't come...