What happened to getting married before having children?

pinknfluffy0

thatgirlsam wrote: »

but they don't consider themselves equal to their husbands??

in other words he is more important them they are



and whats worse, they don't want to be equal?

They think of him as more important as the bread winner and head of the family. But I dont pity them as they are happy, and who am I to say thats wrong if it works for them?

Fang_3

thatgirlsam wrote: »

but they don't consider themselves equal to their husbands??

in other words he is more important them they are



and whats worse, they don't want to be equal?

I hope that these kinds of women don't have children. What must it be saying to them? If my mother was like that, I'd be so ashamed.

thatgirlsam

pinknfluffy0 wrote: »

They think of him as more important as the bread winner and head of the family. But I dont pity them as they are happy, and who am I to say thats wrong if it works for them?

that is so, so sad

pinknfluffy0

Fang wrote: »

Show me a woman who doesn't want equality and I'll show you a victim.

How are they a victim if its what they want and are happy?

Its not for me but I see no problem if it works for others.

Fang_3

pinknfluffy0 wrote: »

They think of him as more important as the bread winner and head of the family. But I dont pity them as they are happy, and who am I to say thats wrong if it works for them?

That's truly sad. We're not in the days where a wife is property of her husband, and where she could be legally raped by him. Times move on.

pinknfluffy0

thatgirlsam wrote: »

that is so, so sad

Why is it sad if everyone involved is happy? Should they change to suit others?

thatgirlsam

pinknfluffy0 wrote: »

How are they a victim if its what they want and are happy?

Its not for me but I see no problem if it works for others.

i don't beleive they are truly happy, thats what they say they are but, deep down they must want to be valued as an equal

Fang_3

pinknfluffy0 wrote: »

How are they a victim if its what they want and are happy?

Its not for me but I see no problem if it works for others.

Because they're willingly not being treated with respect. Anyone who consents to that and allows it to happen to themselves is a victim of abuse. They might not see it like that, but that's what they have been made to believe by their abuser.

thatgirlsam

pinknfluffy0 wrote: »

Why is it sad if everyone involved is happy? Should they change to suit others?

its sad that in this day and age there are women who feel they are not as important as their husbands

it makes me quite cross actually :mad:

Fang_3

pinknfluffy0 wrote: »

Why is it sad if everyone involved is happy? Should they change to suit others?

They can only kid themselves for so long. How can anyone be happy being treated as a second class citizen?