Facebook Photos - Opinions appreciated!

Kate78

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Delete him off Facebook. You've asked him nicely and he's not playing ball and has no respect for your feelings. If you needed proof that you are better off without him, here it is.

Seriously, this social networking site complicates relationships more than ever. I have a friend who is forever friending/unfriending her ex on their and I just don't get it (I know this cos it pops up in my news feed every time!).

You are being entirely reasonable re: the photos.

I am still not friends with my ex-fiance nearly 2 years on (and I have a new fella now). I bear him no animosity, I'd say hello if I passed him in the street, but have no desire to rekindle any sort of relationship with him. He hurt me very badly, why would I want to be friends with someone who's done that to me?

You just have to move on with your life, and trust that you will find love again.

Kate78

toontron wrote: »

Ive said it before the week and I will say it again, Facebook is the very instrument of the devil himself. It opens up old wounds, stops you moving on from "done" relationships, it is a truely compulsive agent of old Nick. (I should know, Im a hopeless victim myself).

I can SO relate to this! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

bunty109

I think you need to delete him as a friend on Facebook. Sounds like he's having his cake and eating it and you've a lot of heartache. Take yourself away from it!

HannahIOW

Been stung by FB as well. Delete and block.

Amanda65

Hi AW

Had posted on your original thread and only wondered the other day how you are doing.

I agree with the other posters, untag yourself and remove yourself as his friend on FB. He is still sending you mixed messages and mucking (with and 'f') your head. You do not want to torture yourself with recent goings on in his life and have done really well so far. If he doesn't want to be with you but can't quite let go, that is his problem !

On another note, have you had your weekend with your friend in Surrey yet ? Any further thoughts on the house and how is the new job ?? See, so much going on in your life I wonder that you have time to give hima passing thought

izzybusy23

Facebook is the devil! Somehow a blooming speed date application was linked from my facebook account and was sending spam emails to my hotmail account for ages... never opened them as I knew they were spam and just deleted them. Turns out my ex knew all about them and thought that I had signed up to a dating agency whilst we were together; so looks like Facebook has been a contributory factor to my marriage breakdown!

AW - delete yourself from you ex. I know deep down you are hoping that him still having the photo's on his profile 'means something' but he is playing with your emotions. Get rid of him out of your life. You aren't moving on and you are letting him still rule your emotions.

bestpud

Hey, FB isn't the problem guys! :cool:

Just delete him and untag yourself from the photos - why on earth are you torturing yourself by checking up on him.

You've had a lucky escape - the guy is clearly a prat and afraid of commitment - count your lucky stars and move on.

HannahIOW

Both of us have those spamming our email accounts too.

toontron

The trouble with Facebook it that no matter how hard you try, you just cant help sneaking a peek at other people's (especially ex partners or their new partners) pages. You know damn well you never see anything to cheer you up on their, but does it stop you? noooooooooooooooooo!

(The "you" in this post is not directed at anyone in particular BTW, tis a general "you")!

woody01

and then continues to string you along by still sleeping with you

Well from the sounds of things, he didn't exactly have to drug her!