I was wrong, how do I make it up? He didnt Lie!

busiscoming2

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

Busiscoming, thank you for your input. Your last line has just made me burst into tears

We are just married, and the initial stuff happened way before we got married. With everything I suppose it was bad then got better. We have been married a month, and had issues already, although we have lived together 4 years.

I really hope he is telling the truth now and I am a complete psycho for not believing him. Atleast I then know I can change myself xxx

Sorry didnt mean to make you cry, but you sound so much how I imagine I used to.

poet123

Good luck, whatever will be, will be, now.

busiscoming2

richardvc wrote: »

He must be very sure that he paid it as he has not backed down - he must surely know if he is lying if he is in a huge amount of trouble.

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jinky67 wrote: »

Sounds like a typical put the blame on someone else tactic, taking no responsibilty for his own actions at all, I would be very wary:cool:

If he is a convincing liar,it will be seond nature to him and he will believe he is telling the truth and when the truth comes out it will be omeone elses fault (probably yours), I hope to god you find out he was telling the truth all along.

kr15snw

What was the latest you heard from him?

Hope your ok xxx

Littlemadam83

busiscoming2 wrote: »

If he is a convincing liar,it will be seond nature to him and he will believe he is telling the truth and when the truth comes out it will be omeone elses fault (probably yours), I hope to god you find out he was telling the truth all along.

Yep I read up so much on lying the time it was really bad. It is so natural to them. When he stayed at his mums, even she admitted she knew he told "white lies".

OMG am in pieces. If we split I dont know what we're going to do. I just bought a kitten and nowhere is going to let me rent somewhere with 2 cats and I cant afford here.

He is not answering his phone. Really Really dont know what to do.

Sorry guys xxxx

Littlemadam83

kr15snw wrote: »

What was the latest you heard from him?

Hope your ok xxx

The last thing was prob around 4.30 where he absolutely slated me in email saying we probably wont be together. I wont keep trying to call him, I keep refreshing BT but its still not uploaded

ecgirl07

LM83 go for a walk you are building this up to a make or break thing in your relationship and will be in no fit state to talk to him when he comes home and then you will both in a vicious circle of a conversation/argument that will go nowhere good.

take a step back for an hour.

richardvc

ecgirl07 wrote: »

LM83 go for a walk you are building this up to a make or break thing in your relationship and will be in no fit state to talk to him when he comes home and then you will both in a vicious circle of a conversation/argument that will go nowhere good.

take a step back for an hour.

Good advice - please try and calm down, be rational and composed.

Littlemadam83

Am sitting here, trying to be calm. I have a kitten, and he has been sitting on my chest purring, I think i'd be much worse if he wasnt there.

Right, the BT thing has just updated, the time says 15.13 and there are no calls allegedly today. This doesnt help, as my call hasnt shown up either.

Still no sign of him

Does anyone know how to interpret the BT thing?!?!!

whichwhydoIturn

know what I lived like you for years.it wasn't nice.your head runs a million miles.how are you, does your wedding seem a dot in the distance? big hug