I'm heartbroken

NAR

Is this your house? If yes get rid of him and tell your mum's boyfriend - he deserves to know what a slapper he has for a gf.

On a practical front you will need to contact CSA asap to help get your finances sorted.

What a terrible experience, good luck for the future.

Minniemavis

pigpen wrote: »

Of course you do.. it is bad enough he would cheat in the first place but with your own mum must be just the pits.. but it isn't your fault.. in any way shape or form..

TBH I'd be bagging up his stuff right now.. or just flinging out in the garden!! and be done with the both of them!

I think I'm too much in shock at the minute to do anything. I loved him with all my heart and as silly as it sounds I still do but in another sense hate him
More than anything if that's possible?! I definitely wouldn't have him back and I honestly don't think he would want me back. This is not something that happens in my life I feel like it's a dream and I am
Going to wake up anytime soon it's a Jeremy Kyle story this isn't my life!

Thanks again sorry to rant xx

Minniemavis

NAR wrote: »

Is this your house? If yes get rid of him and tell your mum's boyfriend - he deserves to know what a slapper he has for a gf.

On a practical front you will need to contact CSA asap to help get your finances sorted.

What a terrible experience, good luck for the future.

The house is in both our names. I think another thing is that her boyfriend is so gullible as well as me!! I'm not sure he would leave her anyway!

Thanks for reply xx

*max*

Seriously??? Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwww!!! :eek: _pale__pale__pale_

It's wrong on so many levels!

Pack up his stuff and leave it outside the front door. What a disgusting, slimy !!!!!!!!!
As for your "mother".....!!!!!!??? You two need to have a serious talk, if you even want to have her in your life again (I'm not sure I would! :eek:).
I'm shocked beyond belief....

Minniemavis

*max* wrote: »

Seriously??? Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwww!!! :eek: _pale__pale__pale_

It's wrong on so many levels!

Pack up his stuff and leave it outside the front door. What a disgusting, slimy !!!!!!!!!
As for your "mother".....!!!!!!??? You two need to have a serious talk, if you even want to have her in your life again (I'm not sure I would! :eek:).
I'm shocked beyond belief....

I'm shocked beyond belief also. I don't want to ever speak to her again. I just feel so lost and if I speak to people that are friends at work I feel as though they would laugh at me.

Thanks for advice c

Fang_3

Uh huh.
.

NAR

Minniemavis wrote: »

I'm shocked beyond belief also. I don't want to ever speak to her again. I just feel so lost and if I speak to people that are friends at work I feel as though they would laugh at me.

Haven't you got a close friend or relation that you could confide in for support? Obviously you can remain anonymous here and get lots of hugs and support. But by the sounds of things you will need practical help, especially with the kids.

Minniemavis

Fang wrote: »

Uh huh.
.

??? Sorry don't get what u mean!?

Minniemavis

NAR wrote: »

Haven't you got a close friend or relation that you could confide in for support? Obviously you can remain anonymous here and get lots of hugs and support. But by the sounds of things you will need practical help, especially with the kids.

As sad as it sounds the only person I did confide in was my mum I think I'm
Just gonna have to move on and try my best! Xx

Googlewhacker

at the end of the day your mum is your mum, she did wrong but in time I would not hold a grudge with her, think of all the good things she has done for you and counter them up against the bad thing.

You are right to be angry but if as you say you were like best friends then don't cut her out