I am a Bridezilla and my confession is....

clearing_out_my_pockets

We're only having 6 children to the day, most of whom will be between 2 and 6. Althought I know she'll probably cry during the ceremony, my brother has asked SIL to take the baby outside if she does. I couldn't ask them to leave her behind - SIL has had two miscarriages in the twelve months prior to falling pregnant this time around.

neilcrook

I'm really angry and upset because of OH ex therefore i want to ban that 'legal extra seat' at the ceremony just to make sure she can't turn up. :shhh:
I also want bouncers on the door since she is determined to ruin our lives.

though i would find it quite satisfying seeing the look on her face when she realises I don't take crap even on my wedding day :dance:

Bride2be24

neilcrook wrote: »

I'm really angry and upset because of OH ex therefore i want to ban that 'legal extra seat' at the ceremony just to make sure she can't turn up. :shhh:
I also want bouncers on the door since she is determined to ruin our lives.

though i would find it quite satisfying seeing the look on her face when she realises I don't take crap even on my wedding day :dance:

Why dont you get all your guests to bring their invites with them so its an "Invite only" thing. That way she wont be allowed in??

laurarobby

Re kids. i know what u mean but i will have 8 kids on my day and another 2 on the evening. all boys under between 11months and 8yrs. ill have a 1yr old and a 3yr old then. but i dont think parents should take it personal i wouldnt if we was invited to a wedding and it was no kids... when we was kids our parents always had no kids invites and it never bothered them! x

lauraborer

Children are like farts .... you only like your own :rotfl::rotfl:

becca0417

I'm being a total bridezilla about the remote possibility of one of my bridesmaids getting pregnant before my wedding. I know they can't put their lives on hold but I wish she would have just said. Now I'm terrified to even go bridesmaid dress shopping because we can't afford to waste money
It's really taken the fun out of it for me.
Someone tell me to shut up!!!!

RainbowDrops

If it's any consolation Becca, I can't get my BM dresses until just a month before the Wedding, as one of them is expecting.

Speak to the girl in question, I'm sure she'll want to help without too much fuss.
That's what I did, I asked whether she wanted me to just get one or wait.
I'm sure it'll work out!

fawny

I know how you feel becca, my friend who I've asked to be my BM wants to try for another baby later this year, so if she gets pregant or has one before the wedding she won't even be able to come as she probably won't be able to fly she says because of problems last time. So I won't know if I have two BM's until later next year, so can't look for dresses her either. If she does come will probably end up having to have a differnt dress to the other one, which I don't mind but would be nice to know if she was coming or not. Like you say I know she can't put her life on hold but all the same ...

becca0417

Thanks girls. I feel awful saying it but it is making me worry. Everytime I say anything she just says oh well you never know!!!
And another thing, it's MY (and ohs) day not hers!!!!

RainbowDrops

It's your DAY but it's her life
Us brides can't control everything.
If she's not sure, why not suggest that if she needs a new dress / alterations, that she can contribute to the cost.