I am a Bridezilla and my confession is....

spongebabs

I can see me having a BZ moment at my mum, she keeps sighing whenever I mention MOH[/QUOTE]

Why Lexxi? What's she done?

Evansangel

Haha, i will add my last BZ moment since i am a married Lady

At the reception, all of my extended family (who i didn't even want to invite, my mum invited them without asking me so i felt i had to follow through on it) were over 2 hours late, when we opened the buffet without them there my mum said "But none of them are here yet" (in a very sh!tty way)

So i snapped "Well if they'd actually turn up on time then maybe they will get some, its not my problem they decide to be very late!"

Then i walked off and let the people that did show on time enjoy the buffet.

bubbles0169

if i remember rightly lexxi's MOH hasnt done anything its just that her mum wants her sister to be it but they done get on?

Lexxi

spongebabs wrote: »

I can see me having a BZ moment at my mum, she keeps sighing whenever I mention MOH

Why Lexxi? What's she done?[/QUOTE]

The MOH got very drunk and caused a scene, which is what she does anyway, I warned people she would and they didn't believe me and thought I was being dramatic. My mum has now decided to uninvite her bt is leaving me to tell her, when I still want her there. If I mention MOH she sighs and sulks, if I don't then she tries digging to see what's happening with her.
MOH is totally oblivious to all this as I want to speak to her face to face, as we are not allowing her OH at the wedding, but my mum seemed to think that was the end of it and was trying to get me to give MOH dress to OH's daughter.
The problems this planning is having it needs it's own thread!!! :rotfl:

Evansangel, I can't belive they didn't trn up on time! They deserve leftover buffet

Lexxi

bubbles0169 wrote: »

if i remember rightly lexxi's MOH hasnt done anything its just that her mum wants her sister to be it but they done get on?

Noooo my mum would know better than that much enforced family time. my MOH was the one that spilt wine down her dress whilst trying it on

bubbles0169

ohhhh yeah! lol i wonder who im on about then!
is she still your MOH lexx?

Lexxi

She is at the moment, I've still got to tell her that her OH isn't welcome at the wedding, which I think will put her in a difficult spot. It's her nature to not turn up or back out of things. OH thinks that she is trying to get me to fall out with her, but I think it's just the way she is! Partly due to the amount she drinks

burnadebt_2

Puzzledbubbles wrote: »

well, we havent even thought of a date yet - but im already feeling annoyed with everyone rolling their eyes at me becuase they dont like what im saying about possible ideas

Oh and everyone who keeps telling me we HAVE to do something.

Excuse me - OUR wedding not YOURS butt out!

Sorry, i will calm down now honest lol :-)

I feell your pain with the roll the eyes thing!
My mum does it all the time or laughs as if i am joking! V annoying! She isn't one that likes a fuss - not a typical MOB really!
It makes you not want to share your ideas with people!

sunshine_shell

I had my latest one when my drunk OH told me that his best man and girlfriend might be trying for a baby soon... WHICH IS NOT FINE!!!!!! because she is one of my bridesmaids ahhhh!!

usually i would be so excited about a new baby!! but not one that could arrive in the middle of our vows. And the fact that no one told me

Evansangel

Lexxi wrote: »

Evansangel, I can't belive they didn't trn up on time! They deserve leftover buffet

Apparently, everyone turns up lates to wedding receptions.

It seems everyone knew this except for me :rollseyes: