I am a Bridezilla and my confession is....

chelbel1981

chelbel1981 wrote: »

I've thought of another one

I want to secretly punch OH in the back of the head when he won't agree with me

This feeling is growing to...EVERYONE!!! :mad:

missknixon

Would love to know if I am asking too much - being Bridezilla!

Is it too much to expect that everyone is polite on the day! I love to organise but now am feeling like this is dragging me down!

Is it too much to ask that my MiL doesn't get drunk before the service? - apparently she is taking a box of wine with her - she isn't we will get charged if it is discovered!

We have spent 6 years saving up for this and I don't want it spoiling am I really asking too much!

floss2

joolzred wrote: »

I've become so damn disheartened at the sheer cost & difficulty of things that I've become the antizilla and said I not going to get married for the forseeable future :-( stuff it, we're 40 and have no kids so what's the point....

What I wanted was simple + elegant-ish but it just seems insurmountable without spending £1,000's!!!!!

We are both in our mid-40's, I've been there before and got 2 adult sons, but we get married in 2 weeks time - you CAN do it on a budget, you just need to put a bit more thought into it, and don't just think of all things "weddingy".

frannyann

I am a bridezilla and my confession is...
I am a little pee'd off that one of the guests is bringing a baby, without asking if it was okay. I would have said yes, but as its a very small wedding it would have been nice to have been asked!!

MinniMe_2

I am a bridzila and my confession is....

Getting really annoyed at all the litle things and making them worse than they are.

Family telling me what my day should be like.

Oh and mother not talking to me for 3days because I wasn't involving her in decisions (haven't made any - not even on a date!!!)

glad I'm not the only one!

Swinstie73

Puzzledbubbles wrote: »

well, we havent even thought of a date yet - but im already feeling annoyed with everyone rolling their eyes at me becuase they dont like what im saying about possible ideas

Same here, only not so much as they don't like my ideas, just they think I'm weird for suggesting them. They aren't even way out ideas, just ways we can save money.

Also H2B not coming up with ideas, I feel like I'm doing all the thinking! Feel like just going abroad but then that's just as much hassle (for me having to organise it all) :mad:

gandy

okay having the first of what will probably be many bridezilla moments in the coming months but i'm getting a bit peeved that lots of the things i seem to suggest to OH to make the day a bit quirky and fun and very us he's saying "i don't like it" but he won't help me think of any ideas to replace them instead aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

every time i mention wedding he rolls his eyes as if to say "not again" ..... we've got 8 months to go it's not too much to ask for help when everything i suggest he doesn't agree too but he says he wants to be involved with the decisions but he won't give me any ideas.

i've resorted to ordering bits and pieces that i like of ebay, am going to put them together and put them in place for the day and he'll probably not notice them anyway :rotfl::rotfl:

**dancingbutterfly**

ok well my (sort of) confession is that my h2b has had ZERO input in our wedding apart from to tell me he wants a grey suit, thats it.

I talk to him as im fretting over our £3000 budget and he still sits there staring blankly into the telly or xbox, he does nod, say yes,no etc.

and I want to jab him with my pen till he wakes up and takes notice of me. (sort of confession lol!!) This isnt a new thing he's always been like this, not the talkative type! thats my job! we are polar opposites and i think thats why we work, plus he's a lovely bloke who lets me do what i like and would never hurt me.

makes our relationship not look so good but we work! plus we have a 5 yo son together and he's a brilliant dad

Bride2be24

I sooooooo know how you feel about this as my OH is exactly the same. Everything that has been decided on the wedding is because of me and the only thing we have decided on together is the photographer and venue. :mad: it can get so annoying most of the time.

**dancingbutterfly** wrote: »

ok well my (sort of) confession is that my h2b has had ZERO input in our wedding apart from to tell me he wants a grey suit, thats it.

Lexxi

I started using the phrase 'I wasn't so sure but if you don't mind paying out so much then I'll get it sorted' when I saw the glazed look, he soon joined in with the planning, he knows what cars we are having and the colour scheme, come the day he should even know where we are having the evening do, he makes me point it out whenever we are near by.

I can see me having a BZ moment at my mum, she keeps sighing whenever I mention MOH