I am a Bridezilla and my confession is....

catalunya

It shouldnt be, but it always is. People feel they should offer you advice or force ideas upon you. You are allowed to do your day in the way *you* want.

I think I may need to remember that myself sometimes!

wanchai_2

Me too!

We are determined to have a smallish, intimate, simple, non-tacky, non-blingy wedding and I have actually been accused of 'reverse snobbery' for this! :eek:

74jax

findingmyownway wrote: »

but there was so much !!!!!ing behind the brides back that i felt embarrased at times. To me, my small(ish) wedding will mean just as much as their huge display of how much money they have, and I want to be allowed to do it my way Is that too much to ask?

aw that is horrible, I am not surprised you were embarrased. Some people are so ungrateful, just because her wedding was not what they would have wanted. Bet they still ate the free food.

Thankfully, like you say, the bride wouldn't have heard. That must have horrible.

findingmyownway

wanchai wrote: »

Me too!

We are determined to have a smallish, intimate, simple, non-tacky, non-blingy wedding and I have actually been accused of 'reverse snobbery' for this! :eek:

Yes, this ^^^^

Apparently not wanting touches such as the owls delivering the rings and gold edged bouquets somehow means I think I'm 'better' than those people who do?! :mad:

Brightside

hmmm owls delivering the rings, i did debate getting a little back pack so our dog could be the ring bearer - but he can be a cantankerous old sod in unfamiliar surroundings and didn't want him biting anyone.

reverse snobbery indeed! i've heard it all now.

sugarwalsh

Reverse snobbery is so the way to go.
in my circle we call it 'having class'.
Megan

wanchai_2

sugarwalsh wrote: »

reverse snobbery is so the way to go.
In my circle we call it 'having class'.
Megan

:beer: :beer:

double_mummy

i am pis*y with ebay sellers

one of megans friends claire found me this amazing Bms dress that is gorgeous,

but if you scroll down the listing the actual dress is 'inspired' by their listing picture

why dont people just show what they are selling?????? i dont care what inspired you, you dont put it as your main listing picture!!!!!!!!!!

now i cant find the actual dress anywhere- i am very annoyed lol

PS congrats wanchai on the weight loss!

9ja4life

Went for my ring fitting/sizing and it's slightly small so will be recast. The lady then said, "April 7th? You have lots of time. We have till the 6th to get it ready.

I want my ring now and today! That's why I ordered it in September...sigh.

wanchai_2

double_mummy wrote: »

i am pis*y with ebay sellers

one of megans friends claire found me this amazing Bms dress that is gorgeous,

but if you scroll down the listing the actual dress is 'inspired' by their listing picture

why dont people just show what they are selling?????? i dont care what inspired you, you dont put it as your main listing picture!!!!!!!!!!

now i cant find the actual dress anywhere- i am very annoyed lol

PS congrats wanchai on the weight loss!

Why thank you double mummy

Argh, that is so annoying about the BM dress listing, you must have been so disappointed!!! Report them to eBay xx