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MSE Pregnancy Club 18

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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Tigs I have no clue who those people are.........but I'm not sure they are going to be a heap of help for me :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    I have an appt on Thursday with cons so I'll mention it in passing then......unless my feet fall off first :D

    :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

    Bodie and Doyle could ALWAYS help you, even if your feet do fall off :p

    *goes off to cry in a corner for being an old bird*
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
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  • kitkat5566
    kitkat5566 Posts: 1,332 Forumite
    Pigpen: if I lived near u I would offer to help! Let's hope Squeak will stay put a bit longer. I just feel fed up and all achey, and I feel like everything is ready and in place for this baby!
  • pigpen
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    kitkat.. what is worrying me most is if the baby has to be in SCBU for more than 24 hours.. I have no idea how we will manage the other children.. Tiddles didn't go in but this one they are expecting to have either very low blood count or massive jaundice due to antibodies in my blood.. and I don't want to leave my other children and I can't leave the baby in hospital.. I am feeling hot andtired and achey and huge too..
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  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    Pigpen where are you? Can any of us help :D
  • kitkat5566
    kitkat5566 Posts: 1,332 Forumite
    Aw pigpen, that sounds an absolute nightmare. Is there no one who could watch over the kids, like ur ex, any family, friends, etc?! Sorry I'm not much help, I suppose it isn't easy finding a sitter for 8!
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    Hello
    Ex has just texted me to say "see you in court"
    When I asked why, he said to "fight for his kid"
    I asked for further explanation, he says "for all he can" then has gone onto say full custody.
    Please someone help me as I am crying my eyes out.
  • pigpen
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    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Pigpen where are you? Can any of us help :D

    Nah, everyone is miles from me.. unfortunately...
    kitkat5566 wrote: »
    Aw pigpen, that sounds an absolute nightmare. Is there no one who could watch over the kids, like ur ex, any family, friends, etc?! Sorry I'm not much help, I suppose it isn't easy finding a sitter for 8!


    Not that I can think of.. my sis has a small girl of her own, my other 2 sisters are working, my other sis lives in London. My brothers.. no chance! I don't have any close friends I would inflict my children on lol, or who are close enough or who have the time.. their dad would say no to having them just to make my life difficult I know he would.. I may have to ask DS1 and his gf TBH because I can't think of anyone else... I think I'll just hope baby decides to come on a weekend they are all at their dads.. I wonder if I could plan things THAT accurately!?!

    I'm not quite fed up enough to be evicting the baby yet so hopefully this one will last at least until the summer holidays start!
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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Hello
    Ex has just texted me to say "see you in court"
    When I asked why, he said to "fight for his kid"
    I asked for further explanation, he says "for all he can" then has gone onto say full custody.
    Please someone help me as I am crying my eyes out.

    emsy - please try and calm down as its no good for you, the bean or your LO.

    He sounds just like he is full of threats - and unless he can prove you are completely unfit he wont get custordy of your baby.

    Either call his bluff and tell him you'll see him there or just ignore him.

    Some men are such @ssholes!!

    HUGE hugs

    xxx
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    pigpen wrote: »
    Nah, everyone is miles from me.. unfortunately...

    I'm 10 mins from where you are wanting to give birth if there is anything I can do whilst your in.
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Hello
    Ex has just texted me to say "see you in court"
    When I asked why, he said to "fight for his kid"
    I asked for further explanation, he says "for all he can" then has gone onto say full custody.
    Please someone help me as I am crying my eyes out.

    And is this likely to happen?

    He has a drink issue and you know it and he knows it and you have proof of it even better... do you REALLY think any court in the land would take your babies from you to give to someone like that?

    He has about as much chance of getting full custody as he does as walking to the moon.. he will get access unless you can show he is a danger to the children.. let him do his childish ranting and raving and ignore him.. he hasn't a cat in hells chance of getting the children and he is using them as a weapon against you.. take a step back and look at the situation..

    This is also threatening behaviour so show it to your solicitor and that can be used against him as well.. making threats to you when you are pregnant and alone is the absolute pits..

    Chances are he won't even bother because it is too much like being interested in something other than himself!!

    don't get upset.. just ignore his stupidity he is probably !!!!!! up and had a rant at someone in the pub who has wound him up to saying stupid things..

    Ignore the texts or just reply.. bring it on! because he has no chance at all

    Tigtag.. thank you.. I am not intending on getting comfy .. quick in and out jobby hopefully!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
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    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
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