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JC's kick up the butt diary!
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good luck with continuing to debty bust. i think it is nice that your mum may be able to help you with some money BUT, won't paying off your overdraft mean you are favouring one creditor over another one? Which i didn't think was allowed under a DMP?
chevI want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
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good luck with continuing to debty bust. i think it is nice that your mum may be able to help you with some money BUT, won't paying off your overdraft mean you are favouring one creditor over another one? Which i didn't think was allowed under a DMP?
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Hiya Chev,
The overdraft got overlooked and never went onto the DMP. so it doesnt actually make a difference. CCCS want this paid off before the end of this month otherwise they will add it on, and I cant let that happen as OH still uses the account.
Keeping my fingers crossed!!LBM: April 2009 - honest debt figure: Secured: £0.00!! (paid back april 2017) unsecured: £53117.48 (roughly):eek: back with CCCS starting again:(0 -
Oh I see, why does OH still use the account. Can you take the card off him or say that it is going to be a bills account from now on?I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
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jasperconran wrote: »
Wonga - owe £389.00 - have written confirmation they will accept £100!:j (cant believe it!!)
Mackenzie Hall - Owe £90 - offered £45 got a no. They want £72.00, I have offered £60.00 - waiting to hear. will chase tommorow.
Clarity on behalf of Swift :mad: (hate Swift!!!!) - Owe £288 - they want £231:eek: - so gonna push em for lower!
JC xx
As of now, payday loans are gone!:j:j Wonga accepted my £100 anyway, Mack Hall eventually accepted my £60 offer and Clarity settled on £200. So all in all, not bad!!!!
I feel soooo much better now these awful companies are gone and I havent got to deal with them anymore!!!!!
Next CC's and hopefully mum will come to the rescue with the overdraft!
Have a great day guys!
JC xxxxLBM: April 2009 - honest debt figure: Secured: £0.00!! (paid back april 2017) unsecured: £53117.48 (roughly):eek: back with CCCS starting again:(0 -
Brilliant news xxTrying to shift that debt!0
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Thanks Skint, and also thank you for the advice re: ebay! much appreciatedLBM: April 2009 - honest debt figure: Secured: £0.00!! (paid back april 2017) unsecured: £53117.48 (roughly):eek: back with CCCS starting again:(0
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No problem just hope it all helps xTrying to shift that debt!0
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it all helps Skint thank you!
Got to log on and work shortly as I work from home. Not in the mood, I feel terrible, quite sick and down:( Thank god im only on the phones for 1.5 hours, couldnt handle much more today.
have a good weekend!
JC xxxLBM: April 2009 - honest debt figure: Secured: £0.00!! (paid back april 2017) unsecured: £53117.48 (roughly):eek: back with CCCS starting again:(0 -
feeling down today. depressed and sick to death of debt!!! OH has spent all the money we had and we are skint again! will have to borrow £500 off my mum just to see us through till payday:eek:
I am desperately trying to get another job as the new one ive got is casual and so far this week ive only been given about 6 hours work! Had a terrible weekend in a way, OH spent all his time whinging and whining at me and DD:( I am crap at this and crap at that. bad housewife, bad mother etc. If things are so bad, why does he stay??????? I dont understand, I sometimes think he gets some sort of sick pleasure from making our lives a misery!!!!!!
I even scared myself, as during the early hours of this morning, I even contemplated suicide. I feel its the only way I will be free. The only thing that stops me is my DD.
Sorry for the depressing post guys, but I just felt that I needed to get things off my chest today. I constantly feel ill, I get palpitations all the time now, its got to be stress:(
Why do all teenagers put you through hell with their hormones?? DD is at an awful phase at the min, and HE does not help!!
rant over (sigh) think I need another cuppa lol have a good one guys
JC xxxLBM: April 2009 - honest debt figure: Secured: £0.00!! (paid back april 2017) unsecured: £53117.48 (roughly):eek: back with CCCS starting again:(0 -
Well, I've got some good news and some bad news.
good stuff first!! well, I have being trying to get some work for sometime now through bidding on People per hour for freelance work. Never been given a chance until now! Just had a call from a lady who is looking for a virtual assistant long term. Going to be starting on just 3-4 hours a day, offered all calls to be paid for and a good hourly rate, and i got it!!!:j:j start on Wednesday! wooooohooooooooooo:rotfl:
Now for bad stuff............I thought OH would be really happy as the job ive got is casual as I said above. He came downstairs and asked what I was doing and I told him, I said im keeping my flaming options open!!!! He went mad!!!!!!! started slagging me off, said I dont help him enough, he wants an easier life now blah blah blah. I had a go back and he threatened to punch my head in!:eek:
I feel sick, nervy and the papilations have come back. I feel ill again and I had not long calmed down!!!!!
I just think he cant bear to see me happy!
Oh and I also think he doesnt like me thinking for myself, I think, he wants to be in control all the time.......am I right??? what do you think guys??LBM: April 2009 - honest debt figure: Secured: £0.00!! (paid back april 2017) unsecured: £53117.48 (roughly):eek: back with CCCS starting again:(0
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