josiebabie's change of life diary

josiebabie

Thing is I feel sorry for him! I know he'd be rubbish without me (that sounds really big headed) rubbish with money, rubbish with his 2 other children, rubbish at organising his life! I couldn't imagine him as a single person, he's 37 and I think he's just always had a woman to do things for him. Plus to be in his shoes and not have his DD with him all the time would be awful!

anonymoose_3

Awwww Josie (hugs), I don't really know what else to say I'm crap on relationship advice stuff. Sounds like you've made your mind up that you don't want to be with him anymore though & you'd be happier on your own, especially if you've realised you don't love him anymore.
Have to laugh when you say he'd be crap without you :rotfl:(sorry:o)


x

josiebabie

Money in purse: £10.35 & 20 euro cents
Money in bank: £2.08 :eek:
Bills still to pay: £0
Petrol still needed: £0
Days til payday: 6

Well what a day not a lot went on today. Didn't hear from sort-of-OH at all today. Expected to hear something but nothing. Ah well! He kissed me when he left this morning, which I don't know why. It just confused me as to what he wants??? Anyway, we won't dwell on this. On with the MSing!

I have just made a batch of millies cookies while cooking baked potatoes, nearly scoffed them already! LOL Mmmm still warm.... Baked potatoes are off meal plan, with left over chili from freezer.

Am watching deal or no deal on more 4 so can't focus on rambling. Wish I could win a game of that! Anyway, I have been really naughty today and had the tumble on during the day, wanted to get things moving on as I didn't do a lot of washing at the weekend. Sold two purges today but dropped one, so only gained £2.50. Though that was more than I made on labour sales today, so glad I took the lower bonus option...Need another headgasket or something!!!

Right I'm going to go and scoff more millies cookies and feel grumpy. lol

OrangeFairy

Morning Josie

I hope things are better at home. It is horrible that you feel stuck becuase you feel sorry for him. You have to do what makes you happy though!

I hope payday comes round quickly! Mine is next thursday!

josiebabie

Update: I have managed to reduce my mobile phone tariff today! :j Noticed my bills had been going up and up so I actually looked at my bill. There was a web browsing package on there??? This was costing me £7.50+VAT per month! So that came off straight away, I said to the operator that I distinctly remembered the upgrade bloke asking me if I wanted it and I said NO NO NO! He replied "Yeh well you see with the upgrade team, you tell them no and all they hear is yes." LOL That's honesty! So he's credited me this months and reduced my bill to £15 pcm for 300 minutes and unlimited texts. Brillo pads!

NSD today, mainly because I came home from work poorly after throwing up in the toilets. I had a fluffy head this morning, which turned into a cracking headache which made me sick. Couldn't even drive so had to get my mum to pick me up! lol

So these two items were my updates. Not a lot to say other than those. Sold 1/2 a purge today so that brings my totals up for the month.

That's it for today! Feeling much better now so will go in tomorrow and catch up from today.

josiebabie

Morning readers if there are any. Make yourselves known as I feel a bit lonely!

This morning I have had £75 credited to a pre-paid Maestro card I have, this is given to me for bodyshop referrals. I get £75 per referral I do under certain circumstances. So my dilemma is, do I;-
1. Get ahead on paying some bills with the £75 as I have written it into my budget for May
2. Keep it on the card until payday (Monday) and not use it just incase something comes up. Then pay bills with it.
3. Buy a treat with it, I have written it into the budget for next month but only this morning, and I don't REALLY need it written in. I can write it out again.

Answers on a post card please???

Ps. I know what I should do with it (option 1) but I just need people to confirm to me I am correct! :eek: If I do option 2 I might spend it on some thing "by accident"

josiebabie

Wohoo sold another purge!

OrangeFairy

Hello Josie!

Well done on the purges!

I reckon you should spend it on a treat!!! I am obviously the devil!

If you are making great overpayments this month then you should treat yourself if you don't do it often. It can't always be about debts all the time! Should live a little too!

well done on the reducing of your phone bill!

josiebabie

Ohhh you are bad! but right I think....????

anonymoose_3

:think:Ummmm:think: My first thought was treat too:whistle: