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eatandspendaholic

I have just had a private message from a man asking me "what kind of attention do I crave from men" :eek: I dont need this. I told him I was not prepared to discuss it privatley but if he wished to post in my thread where it is open for all to read, I wil reply. ? dont know if ive done the right thing :eek:

Thankyou

eatandspendaholic

ZarZar1990 wrote: »

You're very welcome moneysaver, make sure you keep us posted, and post up your statement of affairs so we can all help you shave off those pennies you don't need to be spending
If you refer to this daily, like a diary, you can explain how you feel about things, and what you've done, and you can get feedback from us guys, and we'll try to motivate you best we can, plus it helps to have a little moral support sometimes

I will be checking in daily. Just being able to talk about it is a relief.

Thankyou

eatandspendaholic

Tixy wrote: »

Is there a particular thing you spend on thats a main weakness for you?

If there is perhaps you could come with some sort or motivation challenge
E.g. if you often overspend on clothes or shoes or similar maybe set yourself a challenge whereby for every £50 extra you pay off your debts or every 2lb you lose in weight you put £10 towards a new fund which can then be used for new clothes
(or whatever would work for you)

Rubbish food, sweets chocoalte, pies etc the usual junk food. Coffee's and lunch out, clothes I just do not need and tshirts looooads of them. When i see ones i like I get every colour in the same tshirt. At the last count I had 14 pairs of jeans. Also stuff for the house that never gets used !!!

edmund_blackadder

eatandspendaholic wrote: »

I have just had a private message from a man asking me "what kind of attention do I crave from men" :eek: I dont need this. I told him I was not prepared to discuss it privatley but if he wished to post in my thread where it is open for all to read, I wil reply. ? dont know if ive done the right thing :eek:

Thankyou

Yes you've done the right thing. Unfortunately this forum is open to everyone so you will get weirdos on here too.

If I were you I'd name and shame the person that is quite clearly trying to take advantage of a vulnerable situation (or at least try and upset you).

Pippilongstocking

eatandspendaholic wrote: »

Rubbish food, sweets chocoalte, pies etc the usual junk food. Coffee's and lunch out, clothes I just do not need and tshirts looooads of them. When i see ones i like I get every colour in the same tshirt. At the last count I had 14 pairs of jeans. Also stuff for the house that never gets used !!![/QUOTE]


OK this screams of ebay to me - why not sort your things when you get a chance and begin to ebay the bits you don't really need/want/use.

Will help lots towards your debts and help focus your mind when you're doing it xx.

(Sorry about the horrible PM from the man - mostly everyone here is lovely)

ZarZar1990

Yeah, don't let the weird man put you off, 99% of people on here are normal and want to help!

eatandspendaholic

edmund_blackadder wrote: »

Yes you've done the right thing. Unfortunately this forum is open to everyone so you will get weirdos on here too.

If I were you I'd name and shame the person that is quite clearly trying to take advantage of a vulnerable situation (or at least try and upset you).

What kinda of attention is it that you crave from men? x

It came from sc0ward.

I tried to copy and paste the whole thing but it wouldnt let me

thankyou

eatandspendaholic

fayjmck, ebay omg have never been there, I wouldnt have a clue what to do. But I have got lots I could sell. I'll have a look later and suss it out.

You's are all giving me so much to do, lots to take onboard, but loving it. Such kind and helpfull people.

thankyou

Pippilongstocking

Hey many of us speak ebay - so once you get your feet, many hands can help you along.........

xx

Tixy

Just tackle it in small bits at a time eatandspend. Bit by bit you can get there.

Ebay is not that hard - there are some good guides on here if you are interested. Or what about a car boot sale instead?