shall we have a wedding chat thread?

bubbles0169

i feel sick and just want to sob!
one of my little sisters(late teens) doesnt get on with my other little sis(late 20's) and told my maid of honour just that when she said they should all meet up to discuss my hen night, if its like this now whats it going to be like on my hen night and wedding day
i have that horrible feeling thats not going to go away until after it all now
just what every girls dreams of for their big day:(

clearing_out_my_pockets

bubbles0169 wrote: »

i feel sick and just want to sob!
one of my little sisters(late teens) doesnt get on with my other little sis(late 20's) and told my maid of honour just that when she said they should all meet up to discuss my hen night, if its like this now whats it going to be like on my hen night and wedding day
i have that horrible feeling thats not going to go away until after it all now
just what every girls dreams of for their big day:(

Two of my bridesmaids don't like each other either. Fortunately they're not related, but still gave me cause for concern in the buildup. As it was, at my hen they kinda kept their distance from one another without being too frosty. Same on the wedding day - they were civil, but not friendly per se.

bubbles0169

thats what i think it will be like but the fact she made a point of telling my MOH she didnt like her just upset my equilibrium! she didnt have to say that did she? well shed have known id be upset surely

clearing_out_my_pockets

Could also say, though, that your MOH didn't need to pass that on to you...... You obviously know that your sisters don't get on!

bubbles0169

Yeah she didn't mean to tell me she was in a rush telling me who shed spoke to an let it slip then, i hadnt told her about them not getting on, I thought ihad but it must have been someone else, she is so sorry she told me though and said shel just get bridesmaidzilla on them and told me to focus on al the great things to look forward too x

bubbles0169

grrr ive got two days to get to the isa account branch to make a big money transfer into my current account, it would normally be fine but with the children off school ive only got 2moro really as mil said shed have them over night 2nite, i cant imagine my 5 yo being quiet long enough for me to deal with it!
all thanks to my online only isa which i cant transfer out of online and because its a big amount and the first time i need to do it i have to go to the branch!
its to pay the venue half the bill when we go for the menu tatsing on monday, its bank hols on friday and monday so ive got to rush it 2moro! its my money damn you just give itme!!

fawny

How annoying for you, hope you get it all sorted in time.

bubbles0169

got to the branch fine and transffered the money no problems, so went to the venue and paid half the total outstanding:eek:
chose the menu which was lush! portions were huge though so im gonna need a bigger dress or teach OH how to descreetly undo a lace up back dress!
im now just waiting to hear back from a cake maker its really exciting as her cakes are fab and she is very reasonably priced, what i wanted ive seen quotes for £400+ but shes quoted me less than £300 inc setting up on the day!
weve been emailing back and forth since 7pm so im not sure if ill get a final reply tonight which would be good to get done and dusted (but im sure i can wait a few more hours
oo so exciting!
im also waiting to hear back from the venue re table plans, as in the one that will be on show
im wondering if they include it in the price of our wedding or if it will cost extra, lets hope its included:money: