shall we have a wedding chat thread?

bubbles0169

thanks in black and white it seems petty but in RL it doesnt feel it!

comp that dress is gorgeous, at least youll know you didnt choose it just 'cos she did x

hi jalapee, dont feel silly were all giddy with excitement, some maybe getting a little nervous now their weddings are approaching but dont let that put you off as itll all be worth it in the end wont it ladies?....ladies? lol xx

bubbles0169

ive let it get to me and now im

the 'who to invite' dilemma
the more the months are passing the more its clear ill have to invite people i dont really want to spend x amount on when i dont see them, never speak to but its 'the done thing' to invite them

theres still 15 months to go but the guest list is making me depressed already and i cant seem to get past it

RainbowDrops

Aw bubbles - why do you have to invite people if you're spending the money (that's what I'm assuming you mean - or are parents helping out & thus demaniding a say?)

There has to be give & take on the invites to a certain extent, but we made it clear very early that we didn't want to have to sacrafice a whole load of our friends for relatives etc that we didn't even really know.

bubbles0169

were paying for it all x

RainbowDrops

Then surely you have a say in the guestlist!

bubbles0169

i do but i told OH about sister thinking her mum(my step mum) was invited and he thought she was so now cant invite step sister with out inviting step brother aswell

bubbles0169

i suppose i could pretend were the future king and queen and invite them cos its the done thing

becca0417

Lol bubbles. Guest lists are sooo hard don't envy you that one xx

bubbles0169

book photographer.......CHECK:j:j:j:j
its a very MSE one with out the naff photos that you tend to get with the cheaper photographers(not all but some!):money:
ive trawled nearly a hundred but narrowed it down to one that was under budget but didnt woo me and one just over budget that did but i was idly looking at facebook when an advert popped up for one who fits in our budget and provides all photos on a disc for us to use as we wish:D

Gemmzie

Yay :T :T :T :T