MSE Parents Club Part 11

elle_gee

I do understand why they want him to crawl - it's her attitude to him that annoys me. She has no appreciation of his start and original diagnosis and treats him as a term baby with issues, not a premmie with potential issues, and is very focused on ticking off the boxes in order with no leeway for individuals. She refused to believe me that he's ever rolled, let alone rolled across the room at 3.5mths :cool:

tarajayne

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Glad it is not just me!! Did you see that I trained Benjamin to shout 'YAY' and clap when we sang Happy Birthday to him Now that was too cute!!


This morning he was being cute all on his own though - we had an ITNG CD on in the car and he was bopping his head, clapping and laughing at Iggle Piggle and Upsy Daisy :T:T Certainly sent me to work with a spring in my step

Can't imagine why people just sit their babies in a chair and leave them there. Was pulling faces yesterday to make her laugh so she started doing them back! :rotfl:She looks like a little old woman.

tarajayne

elle_gee wrote: »

I do understand why they want him to crawl - it's her attitude to him that annoys me. She has no appreciation of his start and original diagnosis and treats him as a term baby with issues, not a premmie with potential issues, and is very focused on ticking off the boxes in order with no leeway for individuals. She refused to believe me that he's ever rolled, let alone rolled across the room at 3.5mths :cool:

Do you actually get any benefit from seeing her, would you be better not? Considering how far you've come from your own research and work aren't you doing more for him than anyone?

My_Fathers_Daughter

elle_gee wrote: »

I do understand why they want him to crawl - it's her attitude to him that annoys me. She has no appreciation of his start and original diagnosis and treats him as a term baby with issues, not a premmie with potential issues, and is very focused on ticking off the boxes in order with no leeway for individuals. She refused to believe me that he's ever rolled, let alone rolled across the room at 3.5mths :cool:

She just sounds like a cow!!

Sorry, I was just trying to bring the conversation back to premmie crawling because it was wandering to term babies not crawling (which clearly lots of them don't).


LOL Tara - I love it when they try and copy you! We have been trying to get Benjamin to do a thumbs up but he just points!!

cazscoob

:(ive just found out that one of my friends mums have died, i feel awful. sent her a text this am and will phone her later. it was cancer and we knew she didnt have long but she has been a fighter and lasted a year more than the doctors gave her! just sitting here in shock

csh_2

Aw, Caz. Am sorry x

searching_me

((hugs)) to your friends family caz xxxxx

cazscoob

friend done a skydive for her mum last sunday for the cancer charity and she was so proud! i just dont know what to say to her? i told her she is welcome to come up anytime and join in the madness and if she wants peace ill go there. friend has looked after her mum from day 1 and thats a lot for someone whos only 25.
right im gonna sort these kiddies and hide for a bid, ill be lurking though. think i just need to get my hea around it all.

searching_me

we're here if you need us caz x

tarajayne

(((Hugs))) Caz! XXX