MSE Parents Club Part 11

pinkpig08

Yay for Dylan MM!! Don't we have some of the cleverest babies?!

Sorry I disappeared for a while - I though C was waking up but it was a false alarm.

GISI - I've just bought 3 of the willow tree figures from ebay! I love them but had never actually bought any. My new TV unit and lamp table came on Friday so now i've got somewhere to put them!

Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

sami philip is no way interested in a mothers meet .. he said he wouldnt get a word in edge ways :rotfl: x

he's not coming for chat he's too shy for that, I think he wants an excuse for going on a big slide :cool: I was me talking about 3's car that got him interested so not sure if thats what tempted him *shrug*

My_Fathers_Daughter

The blue Fisher Price Seahorse is £3 off ATM in Argos.

Have just reserved one for Benjamin - anything to get him off a little easier. He sleeps well (most of the time) once he is asleep but getting him off is a mare

I know a few on here think it is ace and that is recommendation enough for me

searching_me

just checking pp ... when theres cake theres always a way :rotfl: ..

awwww sami bless him ..

right having an early night as i have a busy week a head of me .. night night you lovely lot xxxxx

Sami_Bee

BeenieCat wrote: »

My mam has watched me give birth twice, and i never used to bother covering up when bf'ing DS or using the pump, but i would never ever let her see me naked under normal circumstances lol!!

me too!

PP - that seller sounds a bit of a loon :rotfl:
when I put my pram on gumtree I said £100 or nearest offer, you gotta give people a guide. There was 3 separate lunas on my freegle last month.

My_Fathers_Daughter

I also have a CSA question!

If a separated couple agree on a financial arrangement between themselves can the CSA be 'called off'?

Not for us - hubby and PW have always done stuff amicably - but one of hubbys employees is moaning about how much he pays the CSA and how much the ex gets...if they agree an amount between them and he pays her directly can she stop the CSA being involved?

pinkpig08

Night sm - I'm off to bed too, have to be up early to take DH to work

pinkpig08

MFD - Yes she can as long as she's not on benefits

3onitsway

Glamazon wrote: »

Friday I will go to sling meet cos last time I forgot to get Fritha to show me something but I can't remember what!

Sami_Bee wrote: »

he's not coming for chat he's too shy for that, I think he wants an excuse for going on a big slide :cool: I was me talking about 3's car that got him interested so not sure if thats what tempted him *shrug*

I was going to ask if you two were going.

Sami - its a shame OH can't get any time off at the moment. They could stand outside looking at the car in a proper blokey way!

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

if they agree an amount between them and he pays her directly can she stop the CSA being involved?

Tada! And she appears!

Yes - as long as she agrees. It doesn't matter if she's on benefits or not anymore. (Although, if she is, she'll have to tell the BA).

CSA can still have the case open, but in the background, so that if it fails, they can go back to CSA without having to open a new case.


Evening everyone. :hello:

Sami_Bee

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

I also have a CSA question!

If a separated couple agree on a financial arrangement between themselves can the CSA be 'called off'?

Not for us - hubby and PW have always done stuff amicably - but one of hubbys employees is moaning about how much he pays the CSA and how much the ex gets...if they agree an amount between them and he pays her directly can she stop the CSA being involved?

I'm pretty sure 3 said they can, the parent in receipt of the claim is the one that has to cancel it and the NRP should make sure they do it in a way that leaves evidence ie. an SO with the reference "Child maintenance" so they have it on their bank statements to proove they've paid in case things turn sour and the RP tries to put in a back dated claim - I think?!?