Miscarriage support

Angel777

Hi everyone

I have been lurking on this thread and reading all the posts and decided to write as I am feeling particularly fed up today.

I had my first miscarriage July 2013 and then very sadly and coincidently had my second at the end of June this year. Both were the only times in my life that I have been pregnant and I was told that the baby had died first time at 6.5 weeks and the second time at 7 weeks.

I felt dreadful this time the whole why me, why twice, will it ever happen to me again etc etc. I have been okay as I took 2 weeks off work but had a particularly bad day today.

I felt better reading all the posts on here and it comforted somewhat. I have been referred to the hospital and I have my appointment in September 22nd. I am a little worried because I still have not had a period yet. The first miscarriage we let it go naturally but this time I had surgical management because I was not even bleeding this time... So cruel.

I still have not had a period and I had the surgical management on Friday 27th June. Feel so teary writing this now.

Just wanted to share my story because I don't really talk about it too much to family and friends as they all think I cope 'so well' and I am 'so strong' blah blah. I know when I have my moments alone how sad I sometimes feel though.

Thanks for reading, all advice and comments appreciated xx

Part_Mouse

Hi Angel so sorry to hear you have been through this hell twice why does life have to be so cruel.Sorry im not much help tonight

Angel777

Thanks Partmouse.

I'm not feeling particularly positive today. I do feel fed up with the entire thing!

I hope tomorrow is a better day. I have coped well, just having one of those days where all you see are pregnant women, babies and stuff

Thanks x

Angel777

How are you Partmouse?

Part_Mouse

The constant slaps in the face are awful,i guess we all cope in different ways. I hope tommorow is easier for you.

Part_Mouse

tbh pretty awful

Angel777

Partmouse i have PM'd you x

wendz86

So sorry Angel x

I don't know about surgical management but i had medical management on 22nd june and have just started my period. I know they say can be up to 8 weeks although i know how frustrating it is waiting.

That is good you have been referred, hope they can help you in some way.

Lara44

So sorry to hear you have been through this twice Angel It is hard when people just assume you are strong and will cope, it sort of shuts down conversations and support. Its okay to be raging, upset, jealous, sorrowful and whatever else. All were part of the process for me anyway. ((((Hugs)))) Hope the appointment goes well.

Part Mouse I hope you're hanging in there. Sending lots of ((((hugs)))) too.

Wendz that is great your cycle is restarting, upsetting though. I hope you're feeling okay.

Angel777

Thank you Lara44

I had a little outburst at the GP today as well.

Hope that you are okay. Are you going through similar?

Thanks Wendz86 yes great that you can try again now your period has come. I think I will actually be glad to see mine for once lol xx

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