Miscarriage support

please-let-me-be-lucky

Please tell me bf won't be much longer Rosie!!

Pyjamas, lots of clean knickers, toothbrush, deodourant, change of clothes maybe? A book? Phone charger? Xx

rosie_78

he's on his way. i'll pack that. thank you so much. xx do u think they WILL keep me in ?
hes says 10 min. x

please-let-me-be-lucky

I don't know either way, they might keep you in even just for a pain relief thing but worst case they may need to repeat the ERPC. At least you will have your things if they do keep you in Xx

ttc39

Hi everyone, sorry I been away while we had the kids here, didnt want them to see any thing I post so had cleared my web history and stayed off just in case.

Poor Rosie xx really hope you are now being looked at in A and E and looked after like you should be xxx

PLMBL - not at all - 3 weeks is no time at all. Xxx

Lara- people stop asking I think cause they just don't know what to say :-( Xxxx

As for me, last day off work tomorrow . Dreading Tuesday already but only in terms of the questions I will get as to why I was off :-(

Hope everyone ok xxx

sweaty_betty

Hello TTC - is there anyway you could ask a manager or someone to tell people why you're off? Or do you not want them to know?

When I went back to work I felt better knowing that people knew and didn't mention it (apart from the odd person asking how I was). However, there was a group of people who weren't told (work in a different building) and I had to tell them, which I found very hard.

However, when I had my early miscarriage last year I didn't tell anyone. I had a day off sick, then I'd already booked a day of annual leave, then it was the weekend. I found it easier that way, in that situation.

It's such a personal/situation-specific thing. But really hope it's bearable for you.

ttc39

Hi Betty, I don't want people to know as then it will be all waiting for me to get pregnant again if you know what I mean.. Extra pressure... And prob from the nasty ones thoughts of "she is too old" :-(. Xx

sweaty_betty

ttc39 wrote: »

Hi Betty, I don't want people to know as then it will be all waiting for me to get pregnant again if you know what I mean.. Extra pressure... And prob from the nasty ones thoughts of "she is too old" :-(. Xx

I completely understand. I have also just turned 39, so I'm sure some people think I won't be trying again now... Hope it goes OK.

samtoby

Hey everyone. There are so many things you have to consider after miscarriage just like pregnancy and physically having a baby.

Rosie- hope your as ok as can be.
Sweaty betty - have you had some acupuncture now?
tt39 - sorry you have to go back to work soon. If you need longer then ask for it. I totally should of taken time off work.
Plmbl- how are you and your family?

Hugs to all xx

rosie_78

I'm on a drip to rehydrate me - blood test showed I've lost too much blood
Skipped the 4 hour wait, only waited 20 min

Hope you're ok xx xx

please-let-me-be-lucky

Hi Sam,

Think AF might be arriving, had some light bleeding and mild cramps, not to mention epic mood swings. It's only been 3 weeks since medical management so if AF does start properly it's sooner than expected, but anything is possible after mc. Had another facebook pregnancy announcement tonight and whilst I'm pleased for them, I'm gutted for me. She's due when I should be due and it felt like a kick in the stomach, literally!

How are you? Xx