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please-let-me-be-lucky

Really tooold?! I'm shocked! Was it at a smaller hospital?

Ttc, I'm ok thanks, had a chill out day in the house as I think I've done too much too soon and I felt exhausted this morning. My DS2, aged 3, announced he needed medicine today because he has 5 babies in his tummy and they are making him poorly . Makes you wonder what he makes of everything that has happened. How are you tonight?

One month already Sam :eek:. Hope you are ok Xx

samtoby

Can't believe it has been a month. I am ok just keeping busy.

Children are affected in all different ways. My DS didn't know and I really am not sure how he would have dealt with it. I am sorry your children are sad too, how do you take the pain away when you are hurting I don't know.

Xx

ttc39

samtoby wrote: »

Just realised one month tomorrow since I found out my baby had died - time doea go so fast. X

Oh Samtoby, that doesn't seem possible :-( sending u a hug xx

ttc39

Morning all

PLMBL, I have just got up and as yesterday no blood :-). But now I, getting paranoid as to where are the clots that were on their way?!?

Wish I had said yes to a scan next week now - How will I know if its all gone. Might have to ring doc this am to arrange.

Feeling ok physically.

Mentally - numb,still in shock.

Hubbie is working in Rugby today and one of my mates lives there so am going to go over with him so I can see her for a few hours. Think she is taking me for lunch :-)

Had a mate in RL come over, she bought me a lovely sanctuary bath set so I can relax and have ME time. App she had a mc before her daughter years ago (11) and it was clear as she told me that the pain never goes away :-(

I've caught up with the whole thread now ladies - so please post on here as its the main thing that is helping me deal with this at the moment .

Did read someone had said about local counselling services so may look into that , even if I just go for a couple of sessions/ group sessions xx

samtoby

Doesn't seem that long. The first 12 weeks went so slow!!

Hope things are easing for you xx

samtoby

Tt39 what ever you need to do to get through. Mine is to keep busy and concerntrate to keeping healthy to try again x

ttc39

Have gone online and booked an appt at docs for Monday am. That way I can go see her, ask if she will re write the sick note ( don't want preg complications) on it - I case it gets in hands of someone other than hr lady.

Also will see if clots feel like they've come away and also will do another test to see if -tive yet.

Samtoby I think I am going to gave to adopt your coping strategy. I already don't want to go back to work But already fretting what the office gossips are making of me being off. A couple of nasty ladies at my workplace :-( xx

tea_lover

ttc39 wrote: »

Hubbie is working in Rugby today and one of my mates lives there so am going to go over with him so I can see her for a few hours. Think she is taking me for lunch :-)

That's where I live - take me for lunch too! :rotfl:

sophiasmum

ttc 39 - sounds like you have a plan, always ggood for moving forward x
Just a point - I tested positive for about 3 weeks I think. (miscarried at 9 weeks). Don't want you to be too upset if you see the test is still positive x

ttc39

tea_lover wrote: »

That's where I live - take me for lunch too! :rotfl:

Haha not today but maybe we can meet another day , that's great you don't live too far away . Do sometimes wonder where we are all scattered about x