Miscarriage support

Lara44

Huge congratulations Samtoby! :j That is brilliant!!

Sorry to hear about your experience on the phone Naomi. Hope you get some more definitive news tomorrow.

samtoby

Thanks for the congrats.

I have to say when I had my D&C the staff were amazing. I felt like royality. From the lady in the scan room who I feel terrible for being I literally screamed out in tears when she told me there was a baby but no heartbeat. The midwife I saw to the lady that ran all the tests that I was offered. I can not fault ANY of them which is nice but horrid to hear some of you ladies have had a terrible time.

Should be 16 weeks now - is it odd I keep counting the weeks even though I know it means it hurts me more. I can't help it!

ttc39

Huge congrats Samtoby on your course :-). A bit of good news.

I've been out with a mate today which was nice but feel gloomy since I've got in and am on my own :-( hubby wont be here for at least an hour and well he isn't really on my page at the moment :-(. Xx hugs to all xx

rosie_78

Samtoby - that's great news xx
ttc39 I hope u start feeling better soon, glad u feel a little brighter today xx

feeling really anxious about tomorrow. ended up using prn that psychiatrist gave me earlier this year, but it's not helping.

OH is being an idiot tonight, really nasty. I worked 11hrs today, then came home to his mess from breakfast/lunch.

I was really ill last night (tmi but .. sat on loo for over an hour with very severe runs happened a few times in past month). wonder if its m/c connected?

I have a question, and i'm sorry to ask it as it's a little blunt.

but once they confirm there is no HB tomorrow morning, how long will I then have to wait until they will offer D&C or meds?? it's been three weeks now since they first told me. so it's 8 weeks tomorrow since the embryo stopped growing.

<<slight edit - not 8 weeks tomorrow since embryo stopped growing, 5 weeks! sorry >>
thank you xx xx

ttc39

Oh Rosie , I don't know, but surely they can't keep you waiting much longer :-(

I had diarrhea throughout my short lived pregnancy and have had it again today.. TMi.. But I think must be preg related..

Hugs to you for coming home to mess - men! They think we will wait on them hand and foot even when we are ill or under this dark cloud. The other day when hubbie was looking after me.. I think I had 2 cuppas made for me all day :-(

Will be thinking of you tomorrow xx

samtoby

Rosie my tummy was bad.

Tt39 men and boys. I live with two literally leave trails where ever they have been. I am a bit of a hoover put away freak when I want to be.

please-let-me-be-lucky

Rosie, they move pretty quickly when it comes to medical management or ERPC. The longest I've waited between agreeing to go ahead and actually doing so is 2 days.

I will be thinking of you tomorrow Xx

Toooldforthis

Rosie... I had to wait 7 days as they were fully booked x

ttc39

Hi Please -let-me-be-lucky, how are you feeling this evening? X

samtoby

Just realised one month tomorrow since I found out my baby had died - time doea go so fast. X