Miscarriage support

Lara44

No way, Tealover emotions work in mysterious ways and you are definitely not taking the p. You are still dealing with so many big feelings.

I think you should try to get a week off and book a little holiday completely on your own somewhere beautiful at the coast, and just find some peace. I have done that before to do some writing for uni stuff and just found it amazing for letting all those feelings come out and then blow away into the sea. Afterwards I always felt some clarity. Like a sort of restart.

(((((Rosie, really huge hugs for the uncertainty of everything. I really feel for you, it's so hard.))))) Your OH is seriously out of line asking for BD.

TTC39, I read back a lot too, and it was nice to see that those who had suffered mcs were now on the pg thread. Hope for the future.

samtoby

All seems like we are having a rough time for all different reasons.

I take great hope in the fact that many people at the beginning of this thread and even a few months back are now pregnant again or had babies. That is what I have to keep in my mind.

Have a better day ladies - I am awaiting a uni I applied with call me. Nervous!:eek:

ttc39

Morning , I slept well last night and no pain at the moment.
Still bleeding and expecting pain when clots pass but till then ill enjoy being pain free :-)

Not sure if it is because after it being so final yesterday , that that is why I slept well - feel calm this morning - have put hubbie and mum and RL mate at ease telling them I am feeling better. Feel I have to do that in order to start getting back to normal again .

In reality , I am still in shock - but felt comfort in the pages of this thread I read yesterday and have decided that this is the place I will come to to talk/ get things off my chest because the sad facts are that - Unless they have been there, been through it - they do not and will not understand, ever, how any of us feel :-(

My maternity exemption card arrived sat and have just popped it in envelope ready to return . Also gone through the mum to be packs boots gave me via that Emma's diary and have put all the bits of paper/ card associated into the recycle bin.

Have kept the nipple pads and sample nappies to go under the bed - because we will try again and inspired by the early posters on the thread who have gone on to have their baby/ babies - I am going to try again :-) not yet though - after 3 internal scans I don't want nothing going near me for a bit lol :-)

Have got dressed this am and am trying to have a tidy up. Have only stopped now for a cuppa and to let you all know how I am and to ask how you are all doing too.

Hope you are all ok and hugs back to all who could do with one, thanks again for being here for me xxx

ttc39

Good luck with the uni place Samtoby xxx

sweaty_betty

Glad you slept OK ttc39. I have also filled a box full of the baby freebies I received. Hoping that we will get to use them in the future.

naomijj

Hi,
I hope no-one minds me posting here. I am a long time lurker on the ttc threads. I got a BFP last Thursday at five weeks but started bleeding on Sunday. It got heavier and heavier and I have had to accept the inevitable that its not happening for us. We had been TTC no 2 for around 15 months. Our DD is 7.
It has been quite physically painful over the last day or so and today I have passed some large clots. I have to have a scan on Friday to check everything is out.
I am devastated I can't think or make decisions. It was only there for such a short time but to me it was our much longed for second baby.
I don't know what I am hoping for in posting but I feel I needed to do something anything.
Thanks
N
hugs to all who need them

sweaty_betty

naomijj wrote: »

Hi,
I hope no-one minds me posting here. I am a long time lurker on the ttc threads. I got a BFP last Thursday at five weeks but started bleeding on Sunday. It got heavier and heavier and I have had to accept the inevitable that its not happening for us. We had been TTC no 2 for around 15 months. Our DD is 7.
It has been quite physically painful over the last day or so and today I have passed some large clots. I have to have a scan on Friday to check everything is out.
I am devastated I can't think or make decisions. It was only there for such a short time but to me it was our much longed for second baby.
I don't know what I am hoping for in posting but I feel I needed to do something anything.
Thanks
N
hugs to all who need them

I'm so sorry. It's such a horrible thing to happen. Hope the scan goes OK.

ttc39

naomijj wrote: »

Hi,
I hope no-one minds me posting here. I am a long time lurker on the ttc threads. I got a BFP last Thursday at five weeks but started bleeding on Sunday. It got heavier and heavier and I have had to accept the inevitable that its not happening for us. We had been TTC no 2 for around 15 months. Our DD is 7.
It has been quite physically painful over the last day or so and today I have passed some large clots. I have to have a scan on Friday to check everything is out.
I am devastated I can't think or make decisions. It was only there for such a short time but to me it was our much longed for second baby.
I don't know what I am hoping for in posting but I feel I needed to do something anything.
Thanks
N
hugs to all who need them

Hello, hope you will find comfort in this thread, go to the start and even though there is heartbreak in all the stories here - a lot have had happy endings too :-)

It is a distressing time, real life people will want you to be over with it in a flash But on here you can talk freely and without fear of being made to feel bad for not coping/dealing with it in an instant xxx

ttc39

sweaty_betty wrote: »

Glad you slept OK ttc39. I have also filled a box full of the baby freebies I received. Hoping that we will get to use them in the future.

Thanx Betty, I am still de cluttering and have felt that this has kept me sane today at least :-)

Was going to throw the samples away and then thought , there is min 12 months shelf life on them - I'm gonna go for it!!!

Positive mental attitude from now on - for all of us xxx

ttc39

No pain today at all - just this constant bleeding :-(