Miscarriage support

Iris36

Big hugs to everyone out there.
I am dreading my what should be due date in september already. I am thinking of taking some days off work then as I don't think I'll cope too well. (And working in a baby room of a day nursery I am still having good days and bad days)

I am struggling with the 1 mmc that we suffered let alone more.
All of you out there are so brave x

Air_Cooled_75

Hello ladies,

It was the funeral on Friday. It was very sad and emotional but we had some great support. I was so stressed in the morning, I had a couple of G&Ts but nothing excessive as I wanted a clear head. The service was beautiful.

I don't know how I feel now, too calm maybe??

I'm so sorry for all your losses. I can't think of anything worse to be honest xx

msb5262

Hi again Air Cooled,

I'm glad to hear the funeral went as well as it could - it will be something to remember especially as you felt the service was beautiful. What an agonising time it must have been for you all.

Re feeling "too calm", I think you're just having a reaction to it all and you have gone a bit numb. You must still be in shock. Please make sure you keep talking to your health professionals about how you're feeling, it's very important to keep them in the loop.

Also take care of yourself physically as much as you can...eat, rest, say no to people who make you feel overloaded. Ask for all the help you can get. And remember you're not alone, you are very much in my thoughts and the thoughts of many, many people both here and in real life.

Take care of yourself and post as much as you like, it's good to share if that's how you feel.

Love from MsB x

claire16c

I have to go to bed soon but just wanted to say I've read all the posts & big hugs to everyone on here xx

Toooldforthis

My second one would be due on Friday not looking forward to it..... huge hugs to all xx

claire16c

So sorry too old. So many horrible days and what makes it worse is its not just the day it's self it's the lead up to it too x

Still2Trace

Nothing that I can add to the thread as a whole, but just wanted to send my sympathies to Ali for a horrible 3 months she has endured.

tea_lover

Big hugs claire, hope the day went ok xx. I know what you mean about always being reminded of the date, my due date would have been christmas day. Not looking forward to it already.

Hugs to you all, hope everyone's having an ok day x.

sweaty_betty

Sending lots of hugs to everyone on here. It's my boys' funeral today, half of me wants it over, the other half is dreading it. They are just in one coffin together, which makes sense to me as the only time they were separated was the 32 hours between their births.

tea_lover

Will be thinking of you lots today betty xx. It makes perfect sense that they're together. Massive hugs for such a difficult day x.