Miscarriage support

tea_lover

claire16c wrote: »

I'm just at the drs for my cd21 blood tests. A ton of spare seats & a lady has sat right next to me. Let's hope she's not contagious!!

Why do people do that?? That always happens to me on trains for some reason.

Hope the blood test went ok and the results are good.

Woman at work still hasn't shut up. I'm really not feeling charitable about this flaming dog right now.

Toooldforthis

Just got home bruised and battered emotionally and physically but home now xx

Thanks everyone for your support xx

claire16c

Toooldforthis wrote: »

Just got home bruised and battered emotionally and physically but home now xx

Thanks everyone for your support xx

Glad you're home take it easy and please don't even think of rushing back to work. At my hospital they didn't start the ops until 1.30 so no one got home til 6 or later, for myself it was 8pm I think, so I'm so glad you got home quickly as that's what you wanted/needed. Make sure DH gets you lots of chocolate/ice cream and of course a shoulder to cry on xx

claire16c

tea_lover wrote: »

Why do people do that?? That always happens to me on trains for some reason.

Hope the blood test went ok and the results are good.

Woman at work still hasn't shut up. I'm really not feeling charitable about this flaming dog right now.

Oh god. What a nightmare working with someone like that.

She said I can call for the results on Monday afternoon but I'm going to wait until I've done the cd3 test hopefully next Thursday, and then get an appt with the dr the following week to discuss it properly. It's the week before I go on hol and see my friend with a 6 month old so I'm praying it will be ok as it will be bad anyway if its not good news but that will just make it even worse as we started trying at the same time, she now has a baby and I just am back trying again.

Toooldforthis

No real sleep last night seemed every time I dropped off I had bad dreams .... lots of pain physically and mentally i know which is worse the mental pain :-( ..... sorry to come on here all full of doom and gloom just feeling so so sad at the mo xx

tea_lover

TOFT - please don't ever apologise for feeling down. You've been through a horrible time, and it's going to take time to start to feel better. You know you can always come on here and moan, whinge, shout, cry, rant hysterically about a colleague's dog... whatever it takes to get through that minute (I think we're both still a way off taking things a day at a time).

Nothing we can say will help right now, but just know that we're thinking about you, and sending much love xx.

Take it easy, I hope you get some rest today. I sometimes find it easier to have a nap in the day than to sleep properly at night. I think some background noise of TV or radio can help stop my mind going in such circles.

Toooldforthis

tea_lover wrote: »

TOFT - please don't ever apologise for feeling down. You've been through a horrible time, and it's going to take time to start to feel better. You know you can always come on here and moan, whinge, shout, cry, rant hysterically about a colleague's dog... whatever it takes to get through that minute (I think we're both still a way off taking things a day at a time).

Thank you that means so much xx

Nothing we can say will help right now, but just know that we're thinking about you, and sending much love xx.

Cue more tears lol

Take it easy, I hope you get some rest today. I sometimes find it easier to have a nap in the day than to sleep properly at night. I think some background noise of TV or radio can help stop my mind going in such circles.

Yep under strict instructions not to move off the sofa so I havent ! And yep the background noise certainly helps.
Thanks again every one you all have been a fab help xx

Toooldforthis

I tried to post and quote not sure I did it right hope It makes sense .... blinking phone !!! X

claire16c

Yes I used the 'don't use anything electronic like kettle or oven for 48 hours' to full effect!! Hope the physical pain is gone now xx

Metranil_Vavin

Glad its all over TOFT.

make sure you are well looked after x