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  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    So sorry to hear that msm, hope their aren't further problems nd your blood results are fine
    Take good care of yourself x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

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  • msb5262
    msb5262 Posts: 1,619 Forumite
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    edited 4 February 2013 at 1:52PM
    Scan done, nothing there :-( some clotting and fluid about but no baby :'-(
    Waitin for blood test results, and they may have seen some other problems in there. Holding it together, it's all rubbish going through this again!!! Was told its just one of those things, ha! Still in hospital as they want to rule out eptopic.

    So sorry to hear this, GG. I really hope you get the all clear to get home very soon. Please accept my condolences and best wishes.

    MsB x
  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    So sorry to hear that MSM. As teamlowe says, hope the other results come back ok.

    I'm waiting to miscarry too :( -ve on a HPT now and some bleeding and cramping, but the bleeding hasn't started properly yet.

    I don't know whether I will need a scan or anything? Last time it was a mmc and I had an ERPC. I read and it says no tampons, but my mum says I should get it checked out. I doubt there is much that the docs or anyone will do at this stage tho - hopefully the bleeding will start in the next day or 2. :(
    :love: Married my lobster in July 2011 :love:

    TTC # 2 since Oct 2011 - good things come to those who wait :o

    :dance: 2013 is going to be our lucky year :dance:
  • msb5262
    msb5262 Posts: 1,619 Forumite
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    Oh abis, sorry to see you here. What an awful thing to happen.

    You asked what to do - I'd just wait it out for at least a day or two unless you get any extreme symptoms. Rest up, keep warm and be aware that we're thinking of you as are all the TTC ladies.

    Take care of yourself

    MsB
  • To be honest abis, as your pregnancy was so early you probably will just have a slightly heavy and maybe a bit clotty period.

    That's pretty much what happened with my 2 CP's last year.

    Having said that if you haven't started bleeding in a day or so, maybe worth a call to your GP?
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • So so sorry Msm :( I really hope thy have some answers for you and you have a successful pregnancy again soon xxx

    Sorry to hear about you too abis. I'd say you would need a scan to confirm its not ectopic etc I'm not sure. At least blood test? Please give your dr a call xxx

    No further forward for me, scan booked for 11am tomorrow. Not feeling very hopeful. Think I'm thinking everything is not ok and anything less is a positive

    Hugs to all xxx
  • I think the main worry is tests still showing strong positive. So they nee to determine what is causing that. Least I don't have to go through mc still, thought that was still to come! Think I passed during no2!
    Still waiting for test results! Been here since 10!
    :j - DS - 7
    :A 2011
    :j - DS - 1 (threatened mc for months!)
    :A - ectopic? Feb 2013
    :o - PG EDD Nov 2013
  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    Hope it all goes ok tomorrow GG - will be thinking of you.

    Hope the results go ok MSM - its horrid waiting :(

    I figured it wouldn't be much different from a period maybe a bit heavier. I think mentally tho I'd prefer for it to start at home. I don't want to be at work or at the supermarket or anything. I know I can wear a pad any time - its just the emotional side I guess.

    I've taken today off work so I can have a good sob when I need one and hopefully for it to start off today. But I think I should go back in to work tomorrow cos I'm not ill as such.

    I thought I should maybe go to the docs in a day or 2 if it doesn't start off. The cramps are there on and off tho - so I presume its coming now.

    I presume it'd still be +ve on a HPT if it was ectopic GG? I hadn't tested in 3-4 days til last night and got a -ve last night, and again this morning. Gah, its such a rubbish situation.

    xxx
    :love: Married my lobster in July 2011 :love:

    TTC # 2 since Oct 2011 - good things come to those who wait :o

    :dance: 2013 is going to be our lucky year :dance:
  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    Its started now :cry: Just want DH home for a cuddle. Only 30 mins to wait but feeling sad and empty and its hurting :(
    :love: Married my lobster in July 2011 :love:

    TTC # 2 since Oct 2011 - good things come to those who wait :o

    :dance: 2013 is going to be our lucky year :dance:
  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    abis21 wrote: »
    Its started now :cry: Just want DH home for a cuddle. Only 30 mins to wait but feeling sad and empty and its hurting :(


    Big Hugs Abis. I'm so sorry this has happened to you....life is so very unfair.
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