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  • Poor abi xx

    Take some painkillers, wrap yourself up nice and cosy and lie on the sofa and watch some rubbish on tv.

    Really sorry again this has happened. I can't express enough what a total b*tch mc's are, no matter how early or late, they suck and are awful.
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    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • Kitten_Pie
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    Oh Abis,

    Really sorry to read this. Take care and get lots of cuddles from DH
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  • claire16c
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    Msm - I'm ever so sorry.

    Abi glad your DH will be home soon. Please don't force yourself to go to work tomorrow if you're not up to it. There is more than one way of being 'ill'. Don't feel bad about it.
  • Msm how are you? Hope it's not ectopic xx

    Abis I'm so sorry :( hope the time passes quickly before hubby is home. I totally agree please do not go to work tomorrow. What is happening is a big deal and a perfectly valid reason for not being there. Please give yourself time to grieve. Huge huge hugs xxx
  • TeamLowe
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    Lots of love to you abis, be thinking of you lots, hope cuddles with DH will help x x

    GG fingers crossed for your scan tomorrow x x
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  • I was there until nearly 3! Blood test show 3-4 weeks pg, which they say could be right & it's too small to see on scan. Doesn't work to me, last AF was Christmas eve, it fits last BD was 20th Jan, but +ive pg was Wed 23rd. No way could I be +tive 3days after bd! Going back Wed am. That will be anothe blood test. In my mind that is to rule out ectopic only, they are being overly cautious telling me I could be pg, probably because I mentioned the bottle of wine I was planning for tonight!!

    I think that I've not even had a 'period like' amount of bleed, it doesn't add up!! I think they didn't believe I was ever pg until bloods!
    :j - DS - 7
    :A 2011
    :j - DS - 1 (threatened mc for months!)
    :A - ectopic? Feb 2013
    :o - PG EDD Nov 2013
  • It could be possible your dates are a bit out. How long are your cycles usually? I don't think you can see anything for a scan under 6 weeks? Do you know what your hcg numbers were today? My hcg numbers were very low if you remember but these numbers can be low and everything can turn out ok sometimes (praying this is the case with me) I hope you get some more answers Wednesday. If your levels rise it could indeed just be too early xxx
  • skintchick
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    Oh MSM and Abis! I'm so sorry.

    Huge hugs. xxx
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  • Cycles are normally OK, i'm always a few days late, so i'd guess 32-34days?
    I cant remember if it was 100 or 1000, and it should have been 130 or 1300? Cant get a positive on test 3 days after bd though? Only bd up until 6th, then on 20th, test on 23rd.

    Who knows! Wed will tell, but i know i'm not pg, just worried something is wrong somewhere! Dont want operations, or infertility! :-(
    :j - DS - 7
    :A 2011
    :j - DS - 1 (threatened mc for months!)
    :A - ectopic? Feb 2013
    :o - PG EDD Nov 2013
  • Courgette
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    Thinking of you, Abi. I'm so so sorry xxx
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