MSE Parents Club Part 10

Squishy

Hmmm I know its cold, but does anyone want an icelolly? Hubby bought me lots when I had a really sore throat with the cold, and I've only managed to make a dent in the amount as he wanted to make sure I had a lot of choices

xmaslolly76

Elasti i dont mind travellng at all so where ever you ladies think would be best would be fine with me most of the east midlands is less than an hr away from me so its doable with picking the kids up and i get a bit of leway as the childminder is paid until 5pm so i dont have to be there when school closes. I also dont mind taking someone with me if they have any travel diffculties i'm easy as long as there is room in the car :-)

BeenieCat

I just wrote a post but i've written my life story lol!! Don't think i'll post it. But it helped just writing it out.

xmaslolly76

Beenie you may be surprised when you see him to find that you have no emotions at all to him at the time. I was with my ex the first time i saw him after the split. I just didnt have the energy to feel anything or get into arguments with him and i certainly wasnt listening to any of his crap it all just kind of washed over me it was after he had gone that all the anger and hurt came spilling out again. Is there anybody you can ask to be there with you for support.

Personally i'm a bit of a cow and would have probably been out for the day if i really didnt think i could face him. It sounds like he is trying to dictate his terms already to you by not giving you an option on wednesday.

Stay Strong hun :-)x

elle_gee

Morning all..

Didn't get to sleep until 4am so decided to pass on the 7am wake up Nothing to do with Rhys, he slept 12-10am, I was just too angry to sleep. I asked OH why he was so horrible, why he tried to wind me up again and said, basically, I wasn't worth the bother, and he said he thought I might find it funny. Clearly not, based on the last three years he's tried it! :cool: I've sent an email to find out how much it would cost me to cancel this weekend - right now I don't feel like spending a minute with him, let alone a whole weekend. Was feeling guilty about leaving Rhys to go off an enjoy myself but now I won't even enjoy it He admitted he only sent the imprint for my necklace off last Wednesday too

Anyway, have got seven hours until he shows his face again so much brighten up

Dentist for me later than play specialist coming round after. Am going to give her a few more sessions for the benefit of the doubt... :cool: Hopefully she'll remember to bring the scales with her too so will get Rhys weighed for the first time in over three weeks

Rhys has been sat here for about 15mins chewing the plate bit of his dummy (the bit that should be on the outside near his bottom lip and chin) *confused* Maybe I ought to feed him...

*hugs* all round xx

pigpen

BeenieCat wrote: »

I just wrote a post but i've written my life story lol!! Don't think i'll post it. But it helped just writing it out.

Don't delete it.. keep it.. to remind yourself!!!

You might need to read it to remind yourself why he is not there any more... and in 10 years time you can look back on it and smile knowing you made a right decision for yourself and your babies!!

elastigirl

BeenieCat wrote: »

My cat is still missing :(:(

How long do i give it before we assume deadness? I need to speak to DS and he's going to be devastated. He's still not over the death of our other cat last June, talks about him all the time.

Our cat was missing for over 2 weeks in the summer. We put posters up, posted flyers in every door on our estate, rang rspca without any luck. We had given her up and one night she just came home From what we can guess as her claws were a little worn down she went into an open garage and got locked in and the owners must have gone on hoilday and once they got home and opened the garage door she was free. Poor thing i really don't know how she made it without food or water. hubby rang me while i was at work at 11.30 pm and i sobbed my heart out. boss said god its's only a cat get over it nice! So glad i don't work now.

OMG step away from the biscuits! I have just put on a top a didn't know it was a maternity and it fits to well :eek:

Sami_Bee

Glamazon wrote: »

Eggs are from 6 months and have to be well cooked.

Jack has just been having cereal but I will be starting him on toast later on this week. He had some of my bread roll yeasterday but just chomped it to death, I might have given him a chip to play with as well

Be interesting to see what people say!

He handled that chip like a pro! I was very impressed with his chewing skills, certainly did better than Ed

XL - the only things 'banned' at 6mths+ are honey and nuts IIRC

those with older LOs When did you/do you plan to give them 'under cooked' eggs/meat and unpasteurised cheese?

Squishy - BB send stuff like that often, I usually check the newsletter to see if the thing I've been sent is mentioned if I'm not sure and then email to say I've got it.

BeenieCat

xmas i've been hoping i'd feel like that.

Basically i think he only wants me back because while he's down there he's got easy access to drugs and he doesn't want to be known as a pathetic junkie (which he is). And obviously him living alone would mean paying his own bills and fending for himself. I want him to start from scratch and see that i did all that when i was 17 and pregnant, i didn't have anything at all and acquired fridges, sofa, bed etc second hand and from the tip.

But he's had everything handed on a plate, his parents paid towards the house he bought with wife, their wedding, their kids, everything. I've never had that and it riles me that he's not paid anything towards Amber's stuff.

Oh - and when we got together he used to make me feel like a failure and say how bad i was that i'd got into debt, which was 3k. Since Summer 08 he's had £10k from the house, £14k wages, and has still managed to get himself in £13k worth of debt!!!!! And whatever benefits he was on when on JSA.
My debt was from when i bought my washing machine, tumble drier, baby's pram, clothes, cooker, etc etc basically setting up home. He's got nothing to show for all hat money, and for most of that time i was on £3.60 per hour!!

xmaslolly76

Thanks Sami :-)

Beenie what an A**sehole. Have you got yourself a little mantra to say when your feeling low. Something like I'm a wonderful person, I'm a wonderfull mom, I'm Happy without you and i don't need you!!