MSE Parents Club Part 10

SusanC_2

searching_me wrote: »

i dont judge her i just dont like her and the person she is .. i understand she'll never change its who she is and that i cant have her in my life as she takes everything from me or poops on what i have ... i tried many times but me thought is a mother is suppose to be always there for you but my mother never was unless i had money x

Once I left home, it was okay. I just nod and say yes at the right times when she complains about my brother or my dad (and then tell OH afterwards not to believe everything she says about my brother as she used to say those kind of things about me). It sometimes annoys me that she wants to visit all the time now but hardly ever did before Alice was born but she is nice and polite to me so I am the same back. The past is the past so I try not to hold it against her and she has no idea of the effects she had on me anyway.

hammyhunter

xmaslolly76 wrote: »

Woohoo another one maybe if we have enough locals we could do a midlands meet obviously anyone would be welcome and i would love to go to the manchester meets but its not feasable with the two older children and OH not being here. It would be lovely to get to know some of you fabulous ladies properly :-)

A midlands meet sounds great

It sounds like lots of people are in need of hugs here today :grouphug:

MM, can I pick your brains? Our house is currently worth approx £275k. We have managed to pay our mortgage off :j If we bought a house worth say £360k, what would be the best way to raise the difference? Is a mortgage our only option? We have no other debts and wouldn't want a mortgage for any more than a max of 15 years probably 10 ....

BeenieCat

tarajayne wrote: »

Well mine is a benefit taking, lazy, good for nothing, loves being the victim, money grabbing, saddo, gonna be so lonely, selfish f*****g biatch!

Now I feel better!

omg do we have the same mother?? :rotfl: Except throw some alcholism in there for mine

searching_me

BeenieCat wrote: »

omg do we have the same mother?? :rotfl: Except throw some alcholism in there for mine

minus the acholism and plus gambling addiction and i think we all have the same mother :rotfl::rotfl: ... how did we turn out alright??? ... sort of :think: :rotfl:x

tarajayne

hammyhunter wrote: »

A midlands meet sounds great

It sounds like lots of people are in need of hugs here today :grouphug:

MM, can I pick your brains? Our house is currently worth approx £275k. We have managed to pay our mortgage off :j If we bought a house worth say £360k, what would be the best way to raise the difference? Is a mortgage our only option? We have no other debts and wouldn't want a mortgage for any more than a max of 15 years probably 10 ....

I'm sure she'll be on later, but we have the same amount of equity and then moved. A mortgage is your only way, but as you don't have any other debt like us and the % on your next house that you are borrowing is quite low it does mean you can get the best rates. We also picked less years. We also fixed for 10yrs.

tarajayne

searching_me wrote: »

... how did we turn out alright??? ...

I didn't!!!

xmaslolly76

searching_me wrote: »

minus the acholism and plus gambling addiction and i think we all have the same mother :rotfl::rotfl: ... how did we turn out alright??? ... sort of :think: :rotfl:x

we must be some of those super dominos like weez said earlier

xmaslolly76

hammyhunter wrote: »

A midlands meet sounds great

I was thinking somewhere like merryhell its easy to get to for most any other suggestions would be great :-)

searching_me

tarajayne wrote: »

I didn't!!!

you did better then most anyway :rotfl::rotfl:

xmaslolly76 wrote: »

we must be some of those super dominos like weez said earlier

maybe just alittle x

Glamazon

Back from IKEA. Got some bits for Jack's room and some bibs with sleeves.
Christopher is so lovely, he wanted to hold mine & Sami's hand to cross the road so Sami and I ended up crashing into each other cos we were pushing pushchairs one handed lol!

Put Jack in the IKEA Highchair (name escapes me again) Antilop?
It is way better than the one I have! Think I might buy one for when we go and stay with people as it seems handy to take down.

Went to ASDA and bought some whoopsied chickens for £1.30! :money:
I say some, I bought 4. One for tea and then 3 for the freezer

I always tell Jack i love him every day - I tell my mum on the phone but not my Dad - I do love him just don't tell him