MSE Parents Club Part 10

csh_2

BeenieCat wrote: »

Where's csh and Fitz today?

Am here, was PMing you!

Have got the HV due any minute

BeenieCat

Adopt a grandad?? Lol can you do that?! That's so cool.

Harley don't shut up please

It confuses me too, but that's the best excuse he can give for being a *swear filter overload*. He is from a small village where there's nothing to do so it would appear they all just got off their faces instead!!! All his childhood friends are the same apparently. He has a couple of 'normal' friends and always promised me he was with them and not the junkies. Before i had Cam i took a few recreational drugs on the occasional weekend but jesus so has everyone i know IRL, he took it too far and ruined his life!

And because he stayed clean with his ex wife, it's all my fault of course :cool:

Sami - i'm getting him signed up to Beavers as soon as i can track down the scout leader, i've messaged them loads but my lovely HV said she'd ask the Surestart man to get someone to get in touch with me. I told her i was scared to sign him up in case they made me go on camping trips but she assured me they won't... lol!!

Sami_Bee

Beenie - remember what Weezl said yesterday about people projecting their feelings onto others; He is blaming you because it's easier to say Beenie made me than to admit to himself he was is a willyhead who stuffed up!
Also he's the type to control and blaming you is a good tool for doing this, controlling partners systematically wear you down so you are dependant on them for everything, don't let him do that to you xx

3onitsway

Sami_Bee wrote: »

those with older LOs When did you/do you plan to give them 'under cooked' eggs/meat and unpasteurised cheese?

We've always had runny egg. You can't have dippy egg if it's not runny. Ooops!

SugarSpun

Beenie, you don't need him in your life. That's the most simple way of putting it, and something that it would be good to keep repeating. He doesn't deserve a second chance - boogering off to Turkey to think?! Taking drugs? Spending his whole salary on crap instead of looking after his newborn?

Your son will learn from you that strong women look out for their kids and teach them to be good people. You don't need a penis to teach him that.

harley1

glad you're not offended.

Off to massage now, back later

Sami_Bee

3onitsway wrote: »

We've always had runny egg. You can't have dippy egg if it's not runny. Ooops!

I purposefully didn't put what I have/will do to get honest responses from everyone

:rotfl:@ Beenie, it's the kids that go camping not the parents!

workinmummy

SugarSpun wrote: »

Your son will learn from you that strong women look out for their kids and teach them to be good people. You don't need a penis to teach him that.

:T:T:T:T

Beenie, he's an !!!!!!! who wants somewhere to live. And thinks you will be vulnerable easy prey. I second, third, forth the go out all day advice.

Also Elle sorry your OH has upset you .And Happy Belated Birthday wishes. Most men just don't have a clue.

Its my birthday on Saturday, but i don't hold out much hope, never do. Joe thought it was my birthday last Saturday, and woke me up with a kiss saying Happy Birthday Mummy - I'll settle for that again.

Hugs to Dontknowanymore. Hope you manage to get to live in the place you want in a few months, and all this can be put behind you.

Knackered again. Alex awake lots in the night for loooong periods of time. Can you believe that Alex woke OH up at 6.30 yesterday morning when he was doing his wide away talkey thing. OH thought he had been kept awake ALL NIGHT so booked half a day and came home at 1.30pm. And i was the one who had been up and down all night as usual. He said how did I know that he hadn't been awake most of the night too. Because you were" snoring" all night, you tit.

BeenieCat

Sami, a friend said that they don't go alone with the leaders until they're in proper Scouts, but he'd be a Beaver so parents all go too. But i'm sure i won't be the only single parent and with a younger baby. I wouldn't have a clue about camping

Thanks everyone, i feel better just to have moaned out loud, at least it's out of my system for before i meet Susan on Thursday or else i'd have been bending her ear about it all too

Doubt he'd come on Weds but if he does i'll probably let him see Amber, i feel stronger about handling him already thanks to you lot. I won't be leaving him in my house while i pick Cameron and his friend up from school or anything so he'd better go and sweet talk his ex wife too :cool: Not gonna put anymore thought into it cos i am 99% sure he won't come at all.

SugarSpun

WM you said tit. Can I say tit?

Beenie, your ex is a tit.

Elle, I'm sorry yours is being such a willy head - is there any chance he'll figure it out?