MSE Parents Club Part 10

money_maker_3

Evening all

CBA to read back so ((hugs) and yeahs and boos are all available, take what is needed

elle_gee

Told him.. he came in and found me in tears (after typing the post about cake.. I want cake, dammit!). Claims it's down to money but that's no excuse as he has the joint acct card all the time and knows he can take cash out and not have to explain it (or say it was petrol, or whatever!) :cool: I told him everything I said here and more. He's gone off to sulk.

How's the silent treatment going in your house, Glam?

Sami_Bee

Aww bum to Elle's C
You're going away aren't you (did I make that up?) maybe he's planned something...

Beenie - earl gray is ming!!!

elle_gee

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Aww bum to Elle's C
You're going away aren't you (did I make that up?) maybe he's planned something...

Hugely doubt it, though he does get paid on Friday :rotfl: We're away for Saturday night - I booked and paid for it :cool:

Dontknowanymore

Hi guys
Thought I should pop in and say hello.
I'm doing ok(ish) this place is doing my head in and DS1 not being in school has just added even more stress, he seems to have turned into a devil child, I dont know what to do, he's shouting all the time, calling me and others 'stupid idiot' hitting, kicking and to my absolute horror today he bit one of the kids chest
It's really getting me down, I feel like it's all my fault for putting him through nothing but shoite in his short little life.
He's back at school tommorrow but I'm dreading it, I cant bear to think about how they are going to cope with him.

I've shut down my facebook for a while as the EX contact me on it pretending to be someone else and got my phone number off it so I've had to change that again too.
I'm just going throuhg the motions at the moment, I feel so low but dont want to confide in anyone as I cant trust them, I cant trust anyone but you lot, I know if I tell anyone how I feel they will take my boys and at the moment they are all I'm living for, it's draining me having to put on a brave face to everyone while inside my heart aches like mad.

My Nan is poorly which is another thing that is getting me down, I'm so close to her, it's more than just Nan and Grandaughter, it's more like a mother daughter thing, I can tell my Nan literally anything, and now I'm so scared I'm going to loose her.

I'm trying to be positive, focusing on getting re-housed but this place just drags you down, I've never known anything like it, for a womens refuge, it's shocking the way the place is run, 'support staff' are less than helpful, it seems they are alll about money and health and safety than caring about the residents, it's taken them 3 weeks to just put a stairgate up on the stairs yet they mention health and safety/cleaning at every house meeting!
I'm having to apply for re-housing off my own back, they wont help me as I'm not staying in this area, it's a joke.
Since I'e been here I've been giving the women housing and benefits advice as they workers just aren't interested, they have no clue about these things which I feel should be areas in which they should know alot about!

Grrrrrr I just want to leave but I can't, I dont want SS thinking I dont want to protect my kids, so even asking for a transfer is a no no.
I can only but console myself that I have until the 3rd August at the very latest, I've got the ball rolling to apply to the council, my SW is bringing me a supporting letter tommorrow which will virtually garuntee me a place in band A at the council of my choice so at least that's something, then once I'm accepted I can start bidding on properties.
I've chosen a small seaside district about half hour from my Mum, my boys will love it there, the schools are good and my SW is more than happy for us to go there.

Sorry this turned into a rant, I didnt intend it to but once I started typing it just all came out

BTW, Ryry is doing so well, walking around loads, althogh he seems to have had a cold for weeks now and still not sleeping through

money_maker_3

Glad you told him elle !! Bet you will have a cup of tea made and he may have to scoot to the shop soon

SugarSpun

Let's hope he has the sense to redeem himself with something over the weekend

Molly's been clingy and whingy all day, I hope it's just teeth and she doesn't have the same sicky feelings I do. If I have food poisoning can she get the symptoms from my milk?

searching_me

((hugs)) dkam you know we're here for you xxxxxxxxxx

Dontknowanymore

Happy birthday elle, if it's any consolation my BDays are always rubbish, I think they are soooo overrated anyhow.

aless02

Beenie - Redbush is a bit of its own flavor. Nothing like Earl Grey, only slightly like normal tea. I love Redbush, so definitely recommend trying it! You don't put milk in it, though.