MSE Parents Club Part 10

Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

sami doesnt the idea of number 3 scare you?? x

not at all, why should it? (that not a 'funny' qu I'm just intrigued, you always say you couldn't 'do' having another small one but you seem to cope really well)

redmel1621 wrote: »

And look how well he did Sami:p Kai was only about 6mths when we concieved and given we hadnt dtd for the first 6-8wks he wasn't very good at his 'job' Hopefully your dh will be just as 'good';)

I am debating the non-hormonal coil.....at least in 2-4yrs time we can decide properly if we are going to have anymore and if not then I will [STRIKE]force [/STRIKE]encourage him to get snipped:o

My thoughts exactly
I had the hormonal coil (IUS) and loved it, just too lazy to make an app for another! - someone remind me to call the DRs 2mo and make an app for while mum's off work please x

lol Tara I was just coming to show you this http://www.ameda.com/products/hospital.aspx but I see you've found them too

searching_me

night night lovely tara x

Sami_Bee

tarajayne wrote: »

Gonna save the page and go to bed, night you lovely lot! Think she'll be happier now she's got the pump Sami recommended!

feels burden of recommending something


Good vibes for Tara's family

redmel1621

I need to read up on it again, but I think when I read about the non-hormonal one it says can cause abdominal pain and very heavy periods....iirc from here and a friend who had the hormonal one it stops periods completely??

Sami_Bee

GISI - was it you that asked about OH's view of birth a while back?
http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.html?p=29765837&postcount=122

searching_me

Sami_Bee wrote: »

not at all, why should it? (that not a 'funny' qu I'm just intrigued, you always say you couldn't 'do' having another small one but you seem to cope really well)

i dont know more then 2 seems like a big step for me .. if we did decide to have another one it wouldnt be til jayden was at least 5 the idea of 2 small young un really does scare me as i worry i couldnt handle it .. it took alot to decide to have number 2 and we tried for really 2 years and ectopic in that as well .. suppose thats just rambling but i think it just boils down to i dont think i could cope .. lack of money, extra stress, family issues etc (that sound really bad doesnt it) x

Sami_Bee

redmel1621 wrote: »

I need to read up on it again, but I think when I read about the non-hormonal one it says can cause abdominal pain and very heavy periods....iirc from here and a friend who had the hormonal one it stops periods completely??

My periods went from relatively painful and heavy to painless and just spotting on the IUS

• What are the advantages of an IUS?
• What are the disadvantages of an IUS?

• What are the advantages of an IUD?
• What are the disadvantages of an IUD?

three2be

redmel1621 wrote: »

..iirc from here and a friend who had the hormonal one it stops periods completely??

Stopped mine too!! initially i had to wear a liner for months because of spotting but after that it was years of period/pain free months.:j
Considering it again. Should really have made that GP appointment when i got the last one out :rotfl::rotfl:but then i wouldn't have met you lot!

searching_me

im on the depo and still getting periods .. im hoping the next injection stops them as it will be the 4th x

Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

i dont know more then 2 seems like a big step for me .. if we did decide to have another one it wouldnt be til jayden was at least 5 the idea of 2 small young un really does scare me as i worry i couldnt handle it .. it took alot to decide to have number 2 and we tried for really 2 years and ectopic in that as well .. suppose thats just rambling but i think it just boils down to i dont think i could cope .. lack of money, extra stress, family issues etc (that sound really bad doesnt it) x

not at all, it would be bad if you went and had another knowing you couldn't afford it etc
if/when we get #3 Chris will be at school so in theory wouldn't need as much attention (as in help eating/using toilet/dressing) so it shouldn't be too much different from now with a toddler and baby, please don't remind me of this if I'm here in 3yrs tearing my hair out!