MSE Parents Club Part 10

money_maker_3

caz, can you ask to see a different doc for him ?? Is he still sleeping on your couch?? I am not sure if this is the right thing to say, so I appologise in advance, but if he is, then maybe you should ask him to leave, he might be more likely to get himself some help if he thought that was the only way to get you back ??

searching_me

i still cuddle jayden to sleep sometimes (well 50/50) dont care .. i love mummy cuddles x

cazscoob

he is still here as he cant get anywhere else as his name is on the lease i cannot make himm homeless and they do not have to rehome him. Cant afford for him to get his own place as it would cost around 800 for rent and dep.
I have phoned HV and asked her to come out tom i thought if anyone can help she will point him in the right direction. i do feel bad though as i pushed him into this and its just made it worse.

karen1907

Glam - I have to say I was a bit annoyed and felt a bit outnumbered by them all saying they don't get up and take an hour getting their LOs back to sleep (which is what has been happening over the last week) - there were 3 of them saying they leave their babies cry themselves to sleep/settle themselves.

Normally I don't pay that much attention but thought it would be nice to be able to leave her settle herself and thought I'd give it a go. Will have to see how often T wakes tonight -hopefully she will go back to once and go straight back to sleep..... *pig flying over* but ever the optimist

MadDogWoman_2

I love my mummy cuddles too - she doesn't sit still now so I don't get them that often.

She has a new game - she loves to pretend to be a hairdresser, complete with snip snip sounds! She was in her element tonight as she helped to wash my hair.

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Caz - Big Hugs.

money_maker_3

aww caz, ((hugs)) hun, I really dont know what else you can do. Hope the HV can help you xx

searching_me

((hugs)) caz dont know what to say so i'll do my usual .. :coffee:???? i make a wicked tea ...

MDW i use to love them with zoe now shes constantly on the go from morning til night x

karen1907

Caz - can't offer anything but HUGS to you

Becles - been reading your posts but can't offer anything but HUGS to you too

I do all the getting up in the night unless I just get to the end of my tether in which case DH will get up for a bit. But usually he ends up just bringing her to me in bed so I can feed her!

ladybirdintheuk

Oh Caz - you're getting everything at once If you can get him back through the door you can definitely ask for an appointment with a different doctor and get a second opinion.

tarajayne

Big (((hugs))) to Becs and Caz! XXX

GISI, ewwww, no comment!

Elle, eek at weirdo, typical that he was there when you were!

Does anyone not think that the sudden cold temperatures could be waking babies again. And I'm not one to give advice as I'm more than happy for Maddy to just get in with me. She goes down after her bottle at 7.30pm and is usually fine but sometimes she wakes in the early hours so I get a lovely cuddle!