elantan's diary

lynsayjane

elantan wrote: »

i think i should just give up now

now don't be so darned silly el! where on earth would that leave you and your kids? It's hard but you have to keep going, you'll regret it if you don't.

why not have an ebay/car boot bonanza and try to make back as much of the money as you can to limit the new debt?

elantan

hubbys job is the ebay used the excuse he didnt know what i wanted selling so i put it all in a tub and handed it to him ...it's still all in the tub and i'm bl00dy determined i aint doing it i do the pigsback mbing quidco etc he has to do something it's like a battlefron in here when it comes to ebay

hypno06

I am sending you a brick wall. Feel free to bash your head against it. It has been well used in the hypno household.....

elantan

cheers i could do with another one i've bashed a hole in mine

Snaggles

I knew what it meant - I remember my school biology lessons lol!

Sorry you're having a crap time this month. Try and look at it that you KNEW it would be hard going in May, but you are doing everything you can to limit the damage to your finances and your sanity. Everything WILL be okay in the end, it's just hard to see that when you're in the middle of it all.

elantan

i know there is light at the end of the tunnel but it's still a wee pin !!!!! lol ..i think when i know what is happening with the car i'll feel more settled i have been reverting back to previous behaviour (something i had thought i'd stopped) and i think it's cause i feel so frustrated just now...hopefully normal service will resume soon....cheers for the support though

gallygirl

hypno06 wrote: »

I knew what it meant, but I have to confess I had no idea until I did my reflexology training!!!

OH says what bit of his feet can he / I rub to stimulate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Snaggles

You're bound to feel frustrated, isn't there a saying about how the darkest bit of the night is just before the sun rises or something?

elantan

ali that is hilarious lol pmsl at that one ..and i know what you mean snaggles just cant remember the saying either ...i love the one what doesnt kill us makes us stronger too (not that the car is a life or death situation)

elantan

it's the fuel pump and it's gonna cost thousands ...the guy doesnt even want to give me a price he's just saying thousands