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suelizab

now I know that this IS a wind up

helpmeplease1_2

suelizab wrote: »

now I know that this IS a wind up

It is NOT A WIND UP. Its 100% genuine. All im asking is for some advice. I know it may look silly but it is really affecting me. Why would someone make something up like this? no one has got anything to gain from it.

Running_Horse

When you're in a hole, stop digging. All you can do is cooperate and beg for leniency.

helpmeplease1_2

Running_Horse wrote: »

When you're in a hole, stop digging. All you can do is cooperate and beg for leniency.

Thank you for the reply. I understand that i have done wrong and i know i will be punished. All i want to know is do i go to the police or solicitors, if so who's solicitors? as the family member does not know who signed it and iv kept quiet.

lynzpower

go to police,tell them everything. Everything MIL has said, your health needs. Do you have a CPN that could support you?

McKneff

If it is a wind up, shame on you.

If it isnt wind up, oh yes, youre sorry, every body is sorry when they get caught. They are really only sorry that they did get caught.

Its nothing to do with your mental illness, stop trying to justify it.
you knew you were doing wrong.
Take responsibility for yourself.

SammyD_2

This must be a joke.

If its not a joke, you deserve everything coming to you. Why on earth would you post on a public money saving forum and expect sympathy about you forging a document to deprive other people of property.

I think most of us here have better things to do than spend time advising criminals.

Mips

Your MIL is quite a shrewd woman.

She knew you would quite possibly get away with it due to your state of mind - hence choosing you, howeever, you will now have to prove that you were at the time mentally unstable and can't be held responsible for your own actions.

This is the only thing that would get you off with this - however, she was obviously scuppered in her plans as you have all been found out.


I just hope you really can prove you didn't know what you were doing - because the onus is on you now. NOT your MIL who is obviously going to save her own skin and lie!

She never signed it - you did. How would your wife feel about you owning up to the fact that her mother is a scheming witch who has used you?

helpmeplease1_2

McKneff wrote: »

If it is a wind up, shame on you.

If it isnt wind up, oh yes, youre sorry, every body is sorry when they get caught. They are really only sorry that they did get caught.

Its nothing to do with your mental illness, stop trying to justify it.
you knew you were doing wrong.
Take responsibility for yourself.

Im not justifying it to be my mental illness all i have said is i am not very stable minded. and yes i am sorry, and i am taking responsibility. i will lose my whole family through this, which im not happy about. All i am going to do is confess so i can move on.

helpmeplease1_2

lynzpower wrote: »

go to police,tell them everything. Everything MIL has said, your health needs. Do you have a CPN that could support you?

I am going now at 9am to the police station to declare what i have done. No i have not got a CPN.