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I'm left paying for my ex bf's PC. Advice wanted

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  • Sugar_Coated_Owl
    Sugar_Coated_Owl Posts: 12,379 Forumite
    No I haven't sent a letter saying that I don't want the money. I've saved all his abusive text messages.

    I'm sure him and his family feel like they've won but to be honest I really don't care anymore. I just hope I never see or hear from them again.
    -->♥<-- Sugar Coated Owl -->♥<--

    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
  • Sugar_Coated_Owl
    Sugar_Coated_Owl Posts: 12,379 Forumite
    As I've now managed to reduce monthly payments to all of my creditors, including HFC for the PC I'd rather just pay for it myself than have to deal with my ex every day. He's gone (hopefully!), maybe now I can finally get my life back on track.

    You're all so helpful on here. I'm really thankful for all your replies. I'm so glad I found MSE! :) I'm never alone anymore.
    -->♥<-- Sugar Coated Owl -->♥<--

    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
  • halloweenqueen_2
    halloweenqueen_2 Posts: 3,312 Forumite
    Its a pity you didn't feel you could carry on, but things happen for a reason and we all learn hard lessons various ways. You are free of him completely which is what you want right now.
    I'm a believer in karma and he will get his just desserts one day - I only hope you get to hear of it!
    I wouldn't have thought the guy is right in the head so you are better off without him and if it took the price of a computer to see that - it was money well spent. All his nastiness can fester inside of him now he hasn't got you to vent it on.
    Sorry to hear about you grandma, hope she improves/feels better.
  • halloweenqueen_2
    halloweenqueen_2 Posts: 3,312 Forumite
    PS I still love the stone and brick idea!!
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